Post # 1
I need help thinking of good hairstyles for my bridesmaids. Two have short ,chin to shoulder length hair and the other two have longer hair. I want something that will be cohesive and also go with my style (but not be the exact same thing). Below is a photo of my hair from the trial. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!
Post # 2
I say let them do whatever they want. The BM’s hair doesn’t need to match
Post # 3
I am letting my BM’s do whatever they want- just because all my girls have very different tastes and I don’t want to deal with anybody getting upset or what not.
BUT! I love that braid that you have in your hair… why not let the girls kind of do their own thing but incorporate that same braid in one way or another.
They could easily do a small braid with a loose updo- even for short hair!
Post # 4
Personally, I like it when the BM’s hair does NOT match! I say, let them each choose what works for them!
Post # 5
Let them choose. Trust me. No one wants to be told how to wear their hair. While you may think something is a good idea, people know their own hair best and what styles work with it.
Post # 6
Let them wear their hair the way they like. BridesClones are not cute.
Post # 7
- Wedding: March 2015 - On a Cliff Overlooking the Bay, Florida
Amajune: I let my BM’s do whatever with their hiar. They actually talked to each other to see what each one was doing so 2 of the 5 didn’t end up doign the same thing looking different from the rest. Also if you tell them how to wear their hair you should be paying for it.
Post # 8
Yes I am paying for their hair and make up
Letting them pick their own styles means one less thing I have to plan and stress about so I like that idea.
Ive just never been in a wedding before and two of the girls asked me what I was thinking for their hair style so I was just under the impression the bride chose.
I’ll just make sure they all have an idea at the rehearsal when we are all together so everyone is ready for our salon appointment in the morning.
Post # 9
I am telling my girls what my vision is… that being no tight updos. LOL. That’s really my only thing for hair.
Post # 11
I want a specific look for my bridesmaids. I am little bit of a control freak when it comes to my wedding. I want everything the same. They will all be wearing some form of mid to high bun.
Post # 12
I echo other posters…just let them choose. Pin hairstyles that you think are pretty and let them do the same. They’ll know what works best for their own hair. I think it could be fun to all incorporate a small braid if you wanted a common element, but having the variety will look great!
ETA- your hair looks beautiful! Love that flower.