(Closed) Happy Birthday to me.. (rant)

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3297 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

I am sorry you’re hurting. Waiting is really hard, I know. You feel sick and forgotten, go ahead and cry, but then get back up and dust yourself off and take your gorgeous self to the spa!

Post # 4
1339 posts
Bumble bee

Is your birthdate posted on your FB?  Mine wasn’t and I didn’t realize it.  I had kept it hidden for security and of course no one posted!  I was so upset!

Anyways maybe many of your family don’t get on FB that often?  Hang in there and feel better soon!

Post # 5
1850 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

If your birthday is clearly posted, that’s horrible! I’m so sorry.

I hope he proposes by then…I would hate seeing anybody actually have to use their walk dates.

Post # 7
180 posts
Blushing bee

Happy Birthday!

Sorry to hear about your birthday so far…perhaps some of your friends and family don’t want to post on fb (I rarely use it myself even for a friend’s b-day).  The day isn’t yet over, and I’m on the East Coast!  It sucks having a b-day near a holiday – mine was near x-mas, so that may have something to do with it.  

Try to keep strong with the waiting, we’re here for you!





Post # 8
2254 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Aww i’m sorry to hear that your bday isn’t turning out as you expected but HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 

Maybe, everyone will rally together to celebrate after you’re feeling better?

Post # 9
1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Happy birthday, NickiBee!:)

Post # 10
4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Happy Birthday!

Stay strong and I hope you feel better soon!

Post # 11
1059 posts
Bumble bee

Happy birthday!!! And the most important people remembered, so yay to that. It must be yuck to not have anyone remember and wish you on your fb though – maybe they are planning a surprise party? I hope that is it!

And I’m sorry your SO did not propose. From my 8 million threads you know I’m in a similar situation, but the important thing for you to remember is that you’re still Nicki who is fabulous and all kinds of amazing and a great mom to her little son. I think as a waiting bee it is easy to forget that – I know that is certainly the case for me. Crossing my fingers that your SO proposes soon, and that you won’t reach your walk date ringless. If that does happen though, I hope you at least reach it strong and with conviction about the right thing to do.

Sending good birthday vibes your way!

Post # 12
3000 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014


#2 I’m sorry you’re sad on your b-day

#3 I wish I could make you a cake but you live very far away from me and I am a terrible baker

#4 I wish we could marry each other because our men are obviously oblivious to how fabulous we are Laughing

Post # 13
1144 posts
Bumble bee

Happy Birthday! I know when you’re sick you just want love & attention & you haven’t gotten much today, but keep hope about the proposal! I’m sure he’s got something great planned

Post # 15
114 posts
Blushing bee

Happy Birthday Nicki!


I’m sorry to hear of your rubbish day and I hope you’re feeling better soon. Pah to meany friends forgetting/not wishing you happy birthday. 


I really, really hope that by this time next month you have a big bit of bling on your finger, I don’t know why but I have a good feeling that your waiting days are numbered!


fingers crossed!

Post # 16
20 posts

Happy birthday girlie. I’m sorry that things aren’t going the way you want right now. I’m hoping that within thirty days what you have bben waiting on comes through in a huge way. 

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