(Closed) Happy Bridesmaid Post!

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: How is your bridal party?
    Drama free, I love my girls! : (7 votes)
    50 %
    Some trouble, I still love them though! : (4 votes)
    29 %
    Shouldn't have had one! : (1 votes)
    7 %
    Cats are awesome! : (2 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    470 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    My bridesmaids are very drama-free, but the girls who wanted to be bridesmaids are not … Oh well, can’t win ’em all!

    Post # 4
    238 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Things were going great with my bridesmaids until recently. They were very excited when I got engaged and came dress shopping with me. They happily agreed to purchase a dress that was over the initial budget and I know they are excited about the wedding itself. Although, my two bridesmaids purchased their dress a month aft the Maid/Matron of Honor (and deadline) and were almost made in a different dye lot because they didn’t tell me they didn’t buy their dresses.  


    My mom decided she wanted to host the bridal shower and cover the entire cost. She asked my bridesmaids months in advance to let her know if they had any potential conflicts in June or July because she didn’t want them to miss the shower. She didn’t ask them for any money or help planning, she just wanted to make sure they would be there. My mom booked the shower for June and texts the date to my two bridesmaids and my sister the Maid/Matron of Honor. both bridesmaids immediately text her back asking if she can reschedule because they have concert tickets that weekend and won’t be able to attend. Seriously, you knew you were going to a concert months ago and didn’t bother to say anything? The shower can’t be postponed because the invitations had already been printed and a hefty deposit was made with the restaurant. So I just won’t have either of my bridesmaids at my shower. I don’t want to start any fights so I haven’t said anything to them, or anyone, but I am really disappointed that they were so irresponsible.


    ok rant over. 

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