(Closed) happy for FI, sad for me

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee

I am sorry, I would be bummed to. Is there anyone local you could ask out as a celebration even if its not an official bachlorette?

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Oh wow that sucks!  Does the Best Man know you aren’t having anything?  Maybe they can include you in the plans?  I don’t see why you wouldnt be able to join in on the fun.  It can be a couples bachelor/bachelorette party….or is that lame?

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@angelica3025: One of my friends had a joint party because they are kinda homebodies and dont go out much. They thought it would be more fun to have every one get together and celebrate, and let me tell you, it was a BLAST!

Maybe your Fiance could have his guys only night, and then you can plan another night with every one all together?

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Awwww, I’m sorry! That sucks. I’ve totally been in situations like that. I really don’t have a lot of friends that live close to us, and my guy has plans several times a week with his friends. Feeling left out sucks ๐Ÿ™ *hugs*

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@karenski: thats a bummer! I know how you feel too…all my girls were from out of town and i felt left out from the whole stage/stagette thing (my DH’s boys were all here…)

 

If you come to Vancouver i will host one for you ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m literally in the same boat as you are. I threw myself a pity party last week over. I feel ya!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

Just for curiositys sake, why do you not have any family coming? None the less I am sorry your feeling left out ๐Ÿ™ I second planning a night for everyone to go out so you at least feel celebrated in some way.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

*Hugs*  I feel for you.  I would ask the guys if its okay that you chum along (as long as its alright with them).  No reason you can’t celebrate your marriage too just because your friends are scattered all about.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@karenski:I know the feeling. It sucks being so far away from everyone.

 

(((hugs)))

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I feel you! My best friends are in the other country and I really wish they could come…sigh…

But look at the bight side, u are marrying your man!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Are any of your friends flying in before the wedding? You could have a bachelorette a couple of days before so that your Out of Town girls can participate. That’s what I’m doing.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m sorry girl. were in so cal do you live? I’m in OC, I’ll celebrate with you!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m sorry  ๐Ÿ™  That’s gotta be hard…   What about taking a weekend trip to visit one of your closest friends?   Maybe you could have a bit of a girly weekend together and get a pre-wedding massage or something along those lines.   I’m not sure if that’s a possibility but I just thought I’d throw it there for you.  Regardless, I am sorry to hear about you feeling down right now. 

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