(Closed) Happy Waiting Post! =)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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364 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m happy and thankful that even though I’m “waiting,” I’m not waiting to meet a great person that I can build a wonderful relationship with. We’ve already found each other, now we just need to wait until the timing is right to seal the deal πŸ˜‰

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I like that on weddingbee we can refer to our bf’s as SO which is also the same name used for Fiance and Darling Husband …. sorta just kidding on this one πŸ™‚

I am happy to be done with dating! woooo

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MissBoPeep:  I’ve used SO in real life and it feels strange to say at first but I really hate saying boyfriend at this point in my life because for some reason people don’t give that term as much credit!

I’m thankful for all the other bees on here who are going through the same thing as I am! I’ve also “met” some wonderful ladies and appreciate the camaraderie here.

I appreciate my SO for all he is–I am crazy competitive and he’s pretty laid back. I’m hyper-emotional (seriously, commercials can make me cry) and think with my heart a lot whereas he is the logical person in the relationship.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

I’m happy that by being a “waiting” bee I can look at all the inspirational, griping, problem shooting etc. posts and learn from them before I have even started!  And I love that I have such a loving and patient SO who is so sweet to me and puts up with my (pre-)wedding craziness!!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I agree with all of you. I enjoy reading all the posts and it feels reassuring to know there is a place where we can connect πŸ™‚

I love my SO and can’t imagine my life without him. He is so patient and calm at all times. Has everything under control. I know he will one day surprise me in the most beautiful way. I know he loves me like crazy, he shows it every day πŸ™‚

Post # 11
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2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m happy to know that I’m not alone!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m really happy I found this site and had no idea anything like it existed. The hope, happiness and excitement is overflowing on this site and it’s really refreshing from the ordinary every day wedding sites.

As far as waiting goes, It sure can be frustrating but I’m actually having fun with it. Making plans (he doesn’t have a clue) trying things on, imagining the way it will be, looking up do it yourself tips… The list is endless, it’s a lot of fun and it hasn’t even started yet πŸ™‚

The man I hope to (sooner than later I’m hoping for) marry is a wonderful man. If there was another one like me in this universe, it would be him. I don’t have to finish my extremely complex sentences before he knows exactly what I’m saying. We often think the same things at the same time, we agree on nearly everything and we are one person with too much love and “cool points” (his words) to make up one person so we were split into two πŸ™‚ I’m a little sappy I know ;p

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I agree that i’m happy I found the weddingbee. Even though I don’t post a lot, I spend a lot of time on here reading the boards. I also love that I can relate to a lot of girls on here, and it feels good to understand each other.

As far as what I’ve learned, well I’ve learned to be happy in the moment and sort of even love the waiting. I’ve started to really enjoy this time in my life. I’ve been thinking, as much as I cannot wait to marry my SO, there are going to be times in the future (when we’re older and with a family) when I look back on this time in my life and miss it. I mean I’ll miss living together as Boyfriend or Best Friend and Girlfriend in a kind of carefree way. So with that said, I’ve just recently started just living in the moment and enjoying it. I think it makes me more loving towards my SO!

And my SO, I just love him to death! I admit, I have been kinda crazy the last few months (ever since I started to consider myself to be “waiting”), and he has just been mostly awesome through it all. All this has made me see just how understanding and empathetic he really is and I love that about him. I think I actually love him more now than before I became crazy with waiting. lol. πŸ™‚

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I love this idea!

Maybe I’m alone in this, but I’m kinda enjoying the whole waiting process. Like I have that giddy, butterfly feeling, the “new relationship” feeling all over again. The anticipation is exciting, like being a kid and waiting for Christmas, if you didn’t know what day you’d wake up and it would be Christmas morning! I feel like as adults, there are so few things that we still get “kid at Christmas” or “pony for your birthday” excited about. I’m just loving the crap out of the waiting stage, because we will never again be in this exact place again, you know?

When we met, everything happened very quickly, so there really wasn’t that period of nervous/excited flirting, “does he like me?”, etc.  We just knew, and that was amazing in its own way. However- as my mom likes to say “don’t wish your life away.”. Yes, I am thrilled, excited, dying, “can’t wait” for him to propose, but I also CAN wait. And I plan to luxuriate in the delicious agony of anticipation! 

….and daydream about the proposal, just a little!

 

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@juneebee:  Word! I think we were writing at the same time! Smile

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@FutureMrsFishy


Yeah! we practically said the same thing! I love it! And I also love daydreaming about the proposal at times.  πŸ˜€

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