Harrassed by stepdad

posted 2 months ago in Canada
Post # 2
Member
813 posts
Busy bee

darkworld :  You need to go to the police and file a police report and also do everything in your power to remove yourself from the home. Go to a family members house, a friend’s house or a shelter. He WILL do it again.

I would also never talk to my mother again if I were you.

Post # 3
Member
1016 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 1983

This wasn’t harrassment; it was attempted rape. How old are you? Can you go live with your father?Grandmother? Aunt? Best friend? He’s a drunk and an attempted rapist, and your mother has rug-swept your awful experience (good work on fighting him off, by the way). You’ve got to not live there any more. Get out and never speak to either of them. Good luck.

Post # 4
Member
3473 posts
Sugar bee

Do you have a counselor at school you could talk to about getting help?

Post # 5
Member
388 posts
Helper bee

Please go to the police and file a report TODAY! This was abuse, it could have been rape if you didn’t get out. You appear to be in Canada, there are many women shelters and different support systems that can help you. Please do it, for your safety, your mom’s and every other women who might get abused by him if nothing is done.

ETA: your mother is just as guilty ad him by the way, she is essentially protecting a criminal. Just call the police. Someone will take it from there. 

Post # 6
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4996 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

 This is horrible. Is there anyone else you can livw with? Grandparent, aunt, etc? Tell a close family member about this.  It’s not safe at home with him there. 

Post # 7
Member
407 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

cassandra7 :  I believe she is 17 or 18. She wrote a post one year ago about this same asshole and her mother. 

Is there an adult around you can trust?  If you are still in high school, speak with the counselors tomorrow first thing. They will help you and protect you. What this disgusting degenerate is doing is wrong. I wouldn’t trust him enough to be anywhere alone with him. Honey, please don’t spend another day in this situation. Get out now! 

Post # 8
Member
3473 posts
Sugar bee

Could you go back and live with your grandmother again?

Post # 9
Hostess
8830 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

darkworld :  Your step-dad tried to rape you and your Mum is blaming you for wanting to have nothing to do with him. Is there anywhere else you can stay? 

Post # 10
Member
6758 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

This is not harassment, this is assault.  Get out of there.  Go to the police.  Go to your school counselors or a teacher you trust.  Stay with a grandparent, aunt, uncle, friend, dad, anyone else.  He will do it again.

This is incredibly horrifying.

Post # 11
Member
300 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2019

He attempted to rape you!!! GET OUT.  The next time he may do it. Please bee go to the police station. Don’t stay silent because your mom will get mad at you. Your mom is just as guilty for not protecting you. SHAME ON HER! You need to be protected from this predator. I am so sorry bee no one should have to go through this. I am sending you hugs. 

Post # 13
Member
6847 posts
Busy Beekeeper

You are right to be afraid of him. Your stepfather assaulted you and tried to rape you. Get out of that house. You got away from him last time, you may not be able to the next time he tries.

Tell the police, tell your school, tell your grandparents, aunts, uncles, friends. Your mother should be angry with him, not with you, stop worrying about her feelings about this and protect yourself. Hugs.

Post # 14
Hostess
8830 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

darkworld :  how are you doing bee? I think a few of us are really worried about you. An update would be good if you could manage it. Hope you are safe. 

Post # 15
Hostess
8830 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

darkworld :  tell the police. It doesn’t matter if your mother gets angry. She is complicit in this. Can you just go stay with your grandmother without your Mum’s permission. Your step Dad has tried to rape you and no doubt will try again . 

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