(Closed) Has a stranger ever grabbed your ass?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

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missythename:  Lol I only had a guy run his hand up my thigh as I was taking his order once (diner waitressing) and without thinking I backhanded him. That shut it down pretty quick. Normally guys don’t make moves on me because I’m pretty scarey/intimidating looking lol, this one just wasn’t that bright. 

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

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missythename:  YES! It happened at work! Thje owner’s brother grabbed my ass and pinched it! Now to make matters akward my Fiance who is the owner’s son’s half brother so it’s akward now…

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - City, State

I had a guy grab my ass once to get my attention while waiting tables. NOT OKAY. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

Yes! Several times in crowded places.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

Yes! Clubs and trains are the worst for it. I generally just look round with a disgusted look then when I cant see anyone I just let it go. Even if I see who did it i usually just glare at them- im too afraid to say anything. It used to happen almost every time I went clubbing (which I stopped about 4 years ago). One time a guy stuck his hand up my skirt and into my underwear to do it while I was at a bar. It happened so fast and that was the worst one ive ever experienced. I didnt see who did it but I felt SO violated. Its annoying that this sort of thing is so common. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

That happened to me at a concert but I didn’t know who it was either. At first I thought it was an accident, then I realized it kept happening. Thank goodness we were in a general admission area so I just moved but I was upset.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Yes! 

Butt grabs, butt pinching, boob grabs, you name it. When I wa 13 a waiter put a wine cork in my bra (I was an ‘early bloomer’). 

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper

At work, I was wearing a tank top with a dangling tie in the back that happened to be right at my butt. A co-worker I had had many problems with in the past wnet to swipe the tie and in the process lightly slapped my butt. I was so mad I slapped his hand and said that it is not acceptable behavior! My boss saw this and I was pulied aside because the supervisor claimed I assaulted the guy who slapped my butt. 

 

Post # 11
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Newbee

I was in a store once and an older man (late 40’s, maybe) grabbed my ass… I was horrified because I was 14!… however, I’m tall and looked much older than 14.  I turned around, and he said “oh, sorry”  Ick!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

I don’t go to nightclubs but I was dragged to one for a birthday party. *rolling my eyes*

Yes, my ass was grabbed on more than one occasion.smh

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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missythename:  I had someone run their hand up the back of my thigh to my bum on a packed train in London. The skirt I was wearing was to my knees, so thankfully the perv stayed on top of my clothes, but I was thouroughly disgusted!!  I tried to move (no where to go!) and he took his hand away.  I couldn’t tell who it was though – everyone was just looking elsewhere.

When I was about 18 I had a drunken middle-aged man slur, “Look at that ass” as I walked by him with my boyfriend.  I turned around and yelled, “What are you, 12 years old??  How is that acceptable behaviour from a grown man??!” and my boyfriend had to physically restrain me! Lol.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

Yes! It was at a concert, and the same guy did it to me twice! And the guys in high school used to dare each other to do it to the girls like it was some sort of game, so unfortunately it happened all the time. There was one guy in particular who used to do it to me all the time, and I ran into him with my husband atCostco a couple of years ago and he could not look either one of us in the eye 

Post # 15
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Helper bee

They’d get hit right in the face if they did.

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