(Closed) Has a stranger ever grabbed your ass?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 31
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Bumble bee

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missythename:  yup and I got pants. I ran out to The bodega to get something. Got pants. Didn’t bother putting on underwear that night

 

Post # 32
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Buzzing Beekeeper

No I’m too ugly for that.

Post # 33
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Helper bee

Boobs and bum as an adult. One man just pulled my top and had a look down whilst waiting for the train about 7 months ago. He was drunk and I complained at volume to him at the time as the platform was busy so I felt able to do so. How these perpetrators see it as acceptable is beyond me. There was a boy in my class during secondary school who used to grope my arse on a daily basis. One day in the corridor he did it and all his friends laughed so I thought “This is it. If I let this go it just won’t stop”. I turned around and punched him straight in the face. I’m not advocating violence but words had failed me up to that point and he never did it again after that. 

Post # 34
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Busy bee

As pp stated, in a crowded environment, like at a club…but never blatantly in public (daylight) where there was enough distance that I was able to see who it was, cus there is no way in hell I would just take that and not do anything…

Post # 35
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missythename:  Yes. A few times in crowds where I couldn’t see who did it.

Once a stranger did it from the front by actually reaching around my back! I slapped him hard across the face before I knew what was happening. Then he grabbed me by my hair! 🙁 Luckily there were other people around (it was on a train platform) so it ended there. But, scary. I was only 15. He was mid twenties.

Edit: I did NOT look older than I was either. I’m short and slight and still always get ID’d even though I’m almost 30.

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Post # 36
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Busy bee

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missythename:  yeah but thats only because my butt enters the room 5minutes after i do!..to be fair its unmissable!

Post # 37
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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missythename:  yup. Old trashy guy grabbed my ass when I was in high school. Yuck! Why do hey think they can do that?!?!

Post # 38
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Yes, the one time in particular was at a festival we were eating at table by the band and I insisted  that I could go to the bathroom alone even though my fiancé was going to go with me and on my way a guy walking with his girlfriend of all times did I tried bi***ing at him but the music was to loud and crowd was to big …. 

Anothrr time walking to class a couple guys started harassing me making pig minded comments and told me to go with them and started approaching me luckily I had just reached the woods clearing and at the point they backed off 

Post # 39
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Newbee

Concerts are so bad for this! I understand that people being pushed together into a small space leads to accidental touching, but some of the touches were definitely on purpose.

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Worker bee

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missythename:  I had someone at a huge crowded street festival do that and I turned around and hit the first guy I saw. He turned around and threatened me. So I responded with, don’t touch me! and he yelled back, I didnt touch you! and then he stood over me to intimidate me. I had no choice but to walk away victimized twice. Love being a woman!

The grabbing thing has probably happened to me about 4x’s total in my life. It might be because I am a smaller woman, I don’t look intimidating, I probably look like I won’t hit back or scream at them, etc…. Each of those times I was left wondering who it was since the people that do this take advantage of crowds when they do this and based off my first experience above – I am hesitant to point the finger if I’m really not 100% sure. They do it and move out of the way to pretend they weren’t there. UGH!  now i’m just making myself mad. anyways, my fantasy is that it happens and a plain clothes police man is standing nearby and sees it.

Post # 41
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Buzzing bee

No one has blatantly grabbed my ass but once on a crowded train I had the nasty experience of a guy grinding his dick on my ass. When I turned and went “wtf get off me!” he acted like he wasn’t doing anything and that it was just the cramped quarters with the motion of the train.

He spent the rest of the ride just pressing his dick against me. I made sure to swing my purse into it when getting off the train.

I tend to avoid at busy times because of that now. Just so fucking gross

Post # 42
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Yup. 13 yrs old and rollerskating when I was a kid in the 80’s…. some 18ish pervert skated up behind me and grabbed my butt. Then, when I was 30 I was in a country bar, and I was walking past a crowd of university guys to get to the bathroom, two of them blocked me and put a hand up my sundress (they proceeded to each get a broken ankle among other things as I stomped on their feet with my high heels, bunch of pigs!) and then, in my profession, I’ve been the target of getting my butt and my boobs grabbed by pinchy old men… ugh… the bad side of geriatric nursing…

Post # 43
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Bumble bee
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CaliRorter:  I know! I cringe just thinking about it. Sorry that happened to you 🙁  I will never understand what makes people think it’s ok to do something like that.

Post # 44
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

No, never have had a stranger grab my ass. But I did have a pervert in a grocery store make this comment, “Your ass is the nicest ass I’ve seen in a long time.” This was as I was bent over grabbing vegetable cans, I was also 19 years old! This perv was probably around 40-45. I stood up, turned around with my cart and checked out with my very few things on my list. But I noticed he was following me and I had a high creep factor going… so almost when I got to my car I had my mace in hand (it was daylight out!) turned around and faced him and said, “what the fuck do you want?” He said, “do you want to go on a date sometime?” I replied with a fuck no… a bunch of expletives…and I slammed my car door so hard the glass reverberated. I nearly shattered my drivers side window. Then I got on my cell, called my boyfriend at the time, he met me on a busy road and proceeded to follow me, told me where to turn to see if the perv was stalking me. Overall, that was a scary situation. I didn’t mind the compliment per say but the age gap, the creep vibe, the following me to my car..  that did it.

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Blushing bee

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missythename:  I see you wrote subway, so I’ll guess you’re also a NY’er.  In which case, I’d say it’s unfortunately common for us. UGH 

I’ve had a few butt grabs, a weird leg rub and a vajay touch (in a dress) UGHGHGHGHG.  

I’ve reacted lamely in most situations.  A few of the first gropes on the train I was never sure where they came from, or if they were an accident.  The vagina toucher I smacked. 

Another butt grabber got me on a bike, and I tried to get him but obv he rode away quickly. 

 

Anyway.. it’s happened enough to me that lord help the next one.  I’ll fight him ha.  Not to sound crazy or anything but it’s really innaprope!

 

 

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