- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Did it work out? Was your Fiance great at it, or did you take the responsibility back because it wasnt getting done?
I felt overwhelmed with the DJ thing, so I handed the responsibility of taking care of all things DJ, including finding one, double checking to make sure we’re on the DJ’s schedule, giving a deposit, telling what songs we want and dont want. You know stuff like that.
Anyway, my Fiance got a good deal with a DJ, who is friends with his brother for 400,my FI’s brother talked to the DJ, and then told my Fiance. Im fine with that. Well, months later, maybe 8 months later, which is now, I would like to get the contact info for the DJ(my Fiance never bothered to get it). I have tried to get my Fiance to get the name of the DJ and contact info before, but to no avail.
So I told him last week that we have GOT to get contact info for the DJ. Its silly that we dont have the phone # to our OWN DJ! I would like to call him to make sure we’re still on his schedule and that he is still doing it for 400. Only reason I want to know is because we dont have a contract because hes friends with my FI’s brother.
My Fiance said that its no big deal, we dont need it yet,etc,etc. I had it at that point. I told him fine you ARE in charge of the DJ, but when you finally do get the contact info and you call him and he tells you that we are NOT on his schedule,or something else, you can be the one to explain to all our family and friends WHY we dont have any music.I told him its all on you!
I know I could ask my FI’s brother for it, but I already had a bad experience trying to get info from him about something else and dont want to go there again.
So ladies. How did it go with you when you put your Fiance in charge of something??