Post # 1
My wedding was at the end of April and it was the perfect day (even though it was cold and windy and i did not lose the weight i wanted to) the day was amazing. My best friend got married this weekend and it was a great wedding as well. She looked beautiful. I couldnt help but think the whole day that I wish I wore my hair different, had a different dress, and lost the weight. I just felt she looked so beautiful and I feel I didnt. I hate to think this way, but I cant help it. Has anyone else ever felt this way?
Post # 3
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
It’s only natural to want to change things in the past– but as you said, your wedding was amazing, it was perfect. Don’t dwell on these thoughts– be happy for your friend, and enjoy the life you have– no point spending energy on things you can’t fix.
Post # 4
You know, I set out to loose weight and my hair did not come out like I had hope but you know what, it was the best day ever. My husband said that I looked more beautiful than he could have imagined.
I have felt that way when I look at the recaps and think, I wish I had pictures like that but you know, you have a husband who loves and I am sure he thought you looked more beautiful on your day than your freind. 🙂
Post # 5
I’m not married yet, but I think we all think about things after and say “damn, I shoulda done that!”… But you know what, everything happens for a reason and the way we have it, is the way we were supposed to have it.
Don’t dwell on what everyone else have or had at their wedding. Each is unique and as long as we get/got married to the man of our dreams, why should we worry about what others do? 🙂
Smile, I’m sure you looked beautiful and you should know your man thinks you are beautiful or else he wouldn’t have married you! 🙂