(Closed) Has anyone ever been to a wedding ceremony and someone ‘objects’?

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
Member
1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@petitcupcake:  I have not, but I’ve wondered this too!  I’m curious.

Post # 4
Member
3265 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I’ve always wondered this! Is anyone that ballsy or upset to actually pull this off and what happens!?

Post # 5
Member
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m pretty sure this only happens in movies

Post # 6
Member
1425 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Now that I’m thinking about it, none of the weddings I’ve been to included “any objections”!

Post # 7
Member
6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@LGenz:  and in Taylor Swift songs 😉

i’ve always been so curious too! We didn’t even have the option for anyone to object in our wedding…skipped right over that part.

Post # 8
Member
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Has anyone ever been to a wedding ceremony where either the bride or groom doesn’t show? Thats another one that appears to happen about 25% of the time in fictional weddings.

Post # 9
Member
4193 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

It’s not part of our ceremony (United Methodist)- think I may have only been to one or two weddings where it was mentioned.

Everything wedding I’ve been to, both B&G have shown up.

Post # 10
Member
1425 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@LGenz:  Not exactly, but the groom at one of my friends’ wedding was there one minute and gone the next and it took an hour to find him (he got in his car and drove off), so I’m assuming the intent to bail was there.

Post # 11
Member
1243 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I know people where this was a concern (it was a church wedding and they did say the line).  Apparently, if it does happen, the ceremony has to stop and there is a meeting between the minister, couple and the object-or… lol  If they have a valid concern, it could stop the wedding.  According to my friends, a valid concern would be “He’s still married to me!” not ” I don’t like the bride”.

Post # 12
Member
1052 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Cedar Lake Cellars

I have actually been to a wedding where the bride didn’t show up.  That pretty much terminated any relationship thereafter.

Post # 13
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’ve never seen it in real life either.  I think a lot of people take it out of the vows now, I know we did.

Post # 15
Member
1755 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’ve never seen it in real life and am having it taken out of my ceremony because I don’t see much point in it.  My feeling is that if someone honestly has an issue with a couple marrying, they need to discuss it with them early in the engagement and then let the matter go.  Even if you don’t approve, there’s no point in ruining someone’s day.

Post # 16
Member
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Never seen it, wish I could, and it didn’t show up in our vows

The topic ‘Has anyone ever been to a wedding ceremony and someone ‘objects’?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors