Post # 1
Last night Darling Husband and I were arguing about houses. And as we were arguing, Darling Husband kept saying how we may get frustrated with each other but that’s ok. I looked at him and thought to myself “I love this man and we can get through anything together”. It was such a great moment because in my family growing up, arguments usually hurt a relationship instead of making it stronger. I just feel like this whole house hunting process, while stressful, is actually making our relationship stronger. Anyone had a moment like this?
Post # 3
Toootally. I think we just had one this past weekend. We got into an “argument” and it resolved itself pretty quickly and at the end, it was just so nice to know that we can argue and be… well, happy. 🙂
Post # 4
Absolutely! My husband and I joke with each other when we’re getting frustrated. He calls himself fly paper, and I’m the fly. Apparently, I’m stuck with him :o) It makes me laugh every time!
Post # 5
Yep! One of the ways I knew my Darling Husband was the guy for me was I realized that when we fought we were ALWAYS fighting to make things better… we never tried to hurt each other or place our interests above the others. And I never worried that a fight meant the end. It just seemed from the start that even when we fought we were on the same team.
Post # 6
Yep. Any arguments we have end in kissing and laughs.
Post # 7
Fiance and I are very different people. He is very calm and doesn’t get stressed easily. Me… not so much. It can make for some pretty intense arguments, although if someone was a fly on the wall, they would probably find it very comical. I can be freaking out at him, and all he has to do is give me that sly smile of his and I can’t stop myself from laughing. It’s at those moments where I know. We’ve also been through some very trying times with our families…. for people our age we have been through way more tough stuff than anyone else I know. In the same month, his father had a massive heart attack and my mother was diagnosed with cancer for the third time. People always tell us… ” with what you guys have already been through… you will get through anything life has to throw at you”. We know this is definitely true…and it’s a great feeling.
Post # 8
Absolutely. I actually wasn’t the one who realized it, but a couple years ago I was telling my grandfather about an arguement we were having, he simply responded with “the person who makes you the maddest is the person you’re willing to fight the most for”. After sitting on that for a day or two I was pretty convinced that not only was my grandfather the smartest man I’ve ever met, but that Fiance and I were going to be able to work through anything.
Post # 9
@Mrs.H2B: Fiance and I are the same way, he told my mom once that it’s just easier to let me freak out for a couple minutes, then say/do something stupid/funny and he knows everything will be fine. lol