(Closed) Has anyone ever had a threesome?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you had a threesome?

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  • Post # 2
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    Blushing bee

    Yes, my BF and I have had a couple threesomes. I’m bi, and several of my friends are as well. It’s always been with a friend that I trust, and it’s always been a lot of fun! BF loves to watch me with another girl, and I like getting to indulge in my love of the female body, so its win-win for us, but may not be for everyone. 

    As for finding a girl, I don’t really have any tips. Maybe try a dating site, like Tinder? Just make it clear what you’re looking for. 

    Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    I have not, but have always wanted to in the past, I do not think I could with my husband, I would be jelous and probably never want to see her face again lol.  But in past relationships, where I did not care as much about the relationship, I had talked about doing it.  It is hard finding another girl that would do it.  

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2019

    I haven’t. My boyfriend has done in the past, but not with anyone he’s been in a relationship with. None of the other parties were in a relationship either.

    We occasionally indulge in the fantasy of bringing another girl into the bedroom. It’s fun to talk about when we’re having sex. But neither of us actually want to do it. We don’t want to share our bed, our bodies, or each other with someone else. It just isn’t for us.

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee

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    BubblesandCupcakes:  Sometimes talking about it is just all the fun though.  That’s awesome you guys have a fantasy together!

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2017 - Not sure

    I haven’t, but I know a couple that has. They are married. If you do it, make sure you have your rules and boundaries and the other party knows exactly what you two are seeking. It works for my friends. So far, it doesn’t cause any problems. Just be clear about your feelings and take into account if you’re going to be upset if he say, has sex with the other gal in front of ya. Have fun 😆

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2016

    Talking about it is far more fun than actually doing it. I have never had one with my Fiance and couldn’t ever do it with him without becoming insanely jealous/just feeling like our bond was somehow broken, if that makes any sense. I think it takes a really strong and very unique couple to bring in a third party sexually and maintain a totally healthy relationship dynamic. It can certainly be done, but I do think it’s pretty rare.

    Post # 8
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    Bee Keeper

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    secretbee49091220:  Never. Speaking for myself only, I am a worrier by nature to begin with and I get stressed out easily so I think it would be difficult with my SO. If there’s an aftermath, I am pretty sure it is something that I will never recover from so I’d rather not. 

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    Post # 10
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    Helper bee

    It’s been something i’ve thought about, and almost tried, but the timing was never right. I did go to a gentleman’s club once and let another woman touch my body in front of my ex, but honestly in hindsight it was a last ditch to save my marriage (weird, I know). 

    I would not participate in one at this stage in my life with my current relationship. 

    Post # 11
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I’m not into it. I am completely straight and I don’t like the idea of kissing another girl or doing other sexual acts with another girl. Also I would never do a threesome with two guys because my fiancé would hate the thought of seeing another man having sex with me and I would hate the thought of seeing him having sex with another girl. Honestly  my fiance is amazing in bed and I don’t think any other man could satisfy me like him and I don’t think another girl will satisfy him like me. Let’s just say we both put the ex in sex when we are toghter

    Post # 12
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2017 - Bahamas

    Hi, “other girl” here!
    The one threesome I have had was when I was 21 (and wasn’t much of a threesome really).
    It was with my ex boyfriend and his then-gf, now-wife (weird situation, but my ex and i are bffs and she is totally okay with it. We are still friends now).
    So, the gf and I are getting down to business and he is enjoying watching. He was trying to touch us, but we were having fun showing off for him and he got sick of it and put an end to it because HE was jealous. We laugh about it now and joke about how he should have just waited like two more minutes. He jokes that he regrets his decsion everyday. I don’t think it really hurt their relationship at all, at least not that they shared with me and we’re all still friends 4 years later even though it ended badly. 

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