(Closed) has anyone ever reconsidered marrying their FI because of his family?

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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Bee Keeper

Hey, so is bridein2011…not that it wasn’t obvious…

Post # 33
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

oops i meant bridein2011

Post # 34
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

LMAO WWOOWW ur Future Mother-In-Law really is CRAZY!  I was reading the other post, too.  Good luck, makes me appreciate my Future Mother-In-Law just a little more lol

Post # 35
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Future Mother-In-Law get a life… seriously.

Post # 36
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

haha earlier Fiance said “I wonder how long it will take for someone to say this makes me appreciate my MIL”

 

Post # 37
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

OMG!!! Are you kidding me!! That is to crazy!! Wow girly…good luck with all of this!! =) Thank God for my Future Mother-In-Law she is awesome!

Post # 38
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow… just… wow.  One would hope that your mother in law could act like the adult, instead of like this. 

I’m even MORE sorry that you’ve got this on your hands.  Sooo lucky with my Future Mother-In-Law – I love her and we get along great.  Maybe you could borrow her.  🙂 

Post # 39
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

How did you figure out for sure that it was her? Did she actually confess??

Post # 40
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

OMG – I just read this post because of your other post!

I am soooo sorry you have to deal with this.

Why wasn’t she honest why did she pretend to be a 30 something bride? Have you confronted her about this?

Post # 41
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2010

That greatly amuses me (the identity of Bridein2011), but I just have to say: I have considered and reconsidered marrying my FH because his family is batshit insane.

And as far as being on his bank accounts? FH’s mom is a gambling addict and used to remove money from his checking and savings accounts “for bills”. She was also able to cash his tax return check last year because she was on his account. I have to say that I nipped that in the bud; not because I am “so controlling” but because it is NOT okay to use a joint account to steal money from your child or S/O or whoever you may be on an account with.

Post # 42
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I have to say that Bridein2011 pretty much negated any good points she had or any standing by acting this way.  Her fake account and postings… it’s invasive, stalkerish, and downright creepy.

@Bridein2011: This isn’t about bank accounts. It’s about respect.  And honestly if you did like her, you wouldn’t go out of your way to stalk her, make an account on Weddingbee and post anonymously to, in a roundabout way, defend yourself and call the FDIL controlling.  You’re being a hypocrite, and honestly… you’re in denial.

Post # 43
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

woah…insane.  This post blows my mind lol.  Flabride (and your other names ;o)) you have the best Fiance in the world .  Definitely a keeper to be dealing with a situation like this.  Yikes

Post # 44
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Busy bee

This is nuts!  Best of luck to you.  ((Hugs))

Post # 45
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Wow your Future Mother-In-Law needs to get a life. Now when you get mad @ your Fiance you can really call him a Son of a B***ch & Mean it. LOL

Post # 46
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I just posted this on the other thread that goes along with this one…thanks again, ladies!

 

Rebekah, unfortunately there is SO much more to the story.  I had once hoped that we could all forgive each other and move forward, but we actually learned in counseling that false hope is not helping anyone and we need to be realistic about the sitation. 

I started this post in hopes that she may realize what it is she has done…I think check yo’self before you wreck yo’self really does apply quite well! 

That being said, it is probably time to let this post die out…so if everyone could please stop adding to it, I would appreciate it!  (is there a way to close a thread?). Thank you all SO much for the support…we really did enjoy reading these comments!

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