(Closed) Has anyone gotten married in a church they do not attend?

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 2
244 posts
Helper bee

I’m getting married in a church that is over 200km from where I live. And our pastor isn’t even from that church. I don’t think it is weird at all

Post # 3
913 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My family’s church meets in a high school auditorium, so we definitely weren’t going to get married there. We got married at a methodist church we weren’t members of, and brought in our pastor (not methodist).

Post # 4
284 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

We are getting married in a church but neither of us attend any church let alone the one we are marrying in

Post # 5
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I don’t think it would be that weird to get married in a different church. However, as a catholic, it was important for me to get married in the church. My second choice would have been a secular ceremony. For me personally, I would not have agreed to marry in a baptist church/with a baptist officiant. 

However, you have to determine what you are comfortable with. Do feel that your values, and the family friends/officiant’s values and vision fit yours?

Post # 6
6881 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I got married in the church I grew up in, I havent been to service to that chuch (before getting married) since  my grandmother died 9 years ago this week and the last time was in that church was/will be 3 years in June when we got married. I see nothing weird about it.


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