(Closed) Has anyone heard of “golden girls”?

posted 8 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
37 posts
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’ve never heard of it, but it’s genius!!

Post # 4
1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I thought you were talking about the TV show!  Then I thought I must be really old if someone on these boards had never heard of it!

Never heard of the term how you’re using it.

Post # 5
2867 posts
Sugar bee

When I opened this thread, I thought you were referring to the 80’s tv show, Golden Girls (one of my favs).

Post # 7
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@beekiss2: ditto!  I’ve never heard of them in the way referenced by the OP

Post # 8
14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@lezlers:LOL, that is what I was thinking.

I think this is actually a great idea.  I may have to use it for the FHs sisters, I have been looking for something to do for them.

Post # 9
4485 posts
Honey bee

Never heard of anything like that at all and I have been to several weddings. Like the other posters, I thought you were talking about the tv show. It’s your wedding so do what you feel works best.

Post # 10
2742 posts
Sugar bee

I know one of the blogging bees was having something like that. Ms. Hippo. I don’t remember what she called them though but they will be recognized that day.

Post # 11
3788 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I love the TV show, but I’m not too keen on the idea, simply because it’s a really clear indicator that they weren’t important “enough” to be bridesmaids. It’s like the consolation prize. I realize that there are a lot of interpersonal politics in picking wedding party attendants, readers, ushers, etc., and sometimes feelings are hurt (happened to me!), but I think I would feel really awkward if I were in that position. What do they do besides wear corsages? And how do they reply when someone asks what the corsage is for? I just think it’d be better to spend the money on a great girls day with your best friends regardless of the wedding, but I guess this is sort of a “to each her own thing.” You know your friends and family best, so if you guys are close like that, they may be honored. Good luck.

Post # 12
1222 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@lezlers: LOL, ditto!

@ThePinkTyrant: Never heard of it, but a very interesting idea. I wish I would’ve heard of this before our wedding; and then maybe I wouldn’t have had as much drama w/ my bridesmaids. This would be something great for those of us who felt obligated to have someone be apart of their wedding party, but didn’t really want them in the wedding.

Post # 13
1057 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’ve heard of a House Party. These are the people who aren’t able to be BM’s but mean just as much to you. They’re still in on the planning, are mentioned in the programs, they just aren’t able to handle the responsibilities for various reasons. 

Post # 14
4485 posts
Honey bee

@Amaryllis, that is an excellent point. It’s also an honor to just be a guest without any duties or other awkward situations involved. It doesn’t mean that the couple thinks any less of those folks either.

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