(Closed) Has he changed his mind?!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

So, you are engaged — your SO has proposed to you and gave you a ring, but he panics at the thought of setting a date or planning a wedding?

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017 - Country Cottage and Gardens

Are you thinking he has cold feet from this one interaction or has there been other comments? 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017 - Country Cottage and Gardens

I’m huge on trusting your gut but I think sometimes we can subconsciously place things on people when nothing is actually happening. If you’re worried he has cold feet then it’s possible you’re viewing his actions through that lenses and interpreting things in ways that he doesn’t mean them. But open communication is a major thing so you really should let him know what you’re feeling and just ask him what he’s feeling. It’s even possible it’s more of a hesitance or lack of interest in the wedding, based on finances or just a sheer lack of interest in wedding planning, and not in the marriage itself.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee

You definitely need to talk to him. That’s a strange reaction to ‘I do’.

Post # 9
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Helper bee

Didn’t you just post a few days ago about possibly cancelling because of some big medical expenses? Maybe this is what’s bothering him. If he’s worried about money that could be making him rethink a full wedding or a courthouse wedding.

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