Post # 1
Ok Ladies – Has marriage changed your sex life? For the better or worst? It seems like as soon as the wedding was over mine went down hill.. And I pulled out all the stops ( whips, handcuffs, kinky outfits, strobe lights, lickable lotions, sex dice).. its just BORING NOW! what happened?
Post # 3
I don’t know what it can be, but perhaps it could have something to do with self esteem issues? In another post you made, you said he was unemployed since the wedding. Perhaps this is a depression and has made him feel uncomfortable with intimacy?
Post # 4
Please don’t be offended….but think for a second…..Maybe you are giving/doing stuff for him too much and you are not making him work for it?
If he is unemployed…what is he doing all day long? that could have something to do with it. If all he does is play video games all day….well, he’s probably obsessed about getting to the next level and thinking about it while you’re having sex that’s why he seemed preoccupied, or out of it.
I hope you work it out!
Post # 5
I agree that it might be that you’re making it too easy for him. For me, making him work for it a little bit makes me feel attractive and desirable, which always makes it more fun.
If he’s feeling a little bit down due to be unemployed, he may have lost a bit of interest there too. Men often have a lot of their self-confidence wrapped up in their ability to be a breadwinner.