(Closed) Has this ever happened to your SO?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Yes, my SO has told me has been hit on by other men. He told me he didn’t realize it happened until after the fact..hmmm lol. I don’t get why though, he is not feminine in any way and I pick up on those type of things…Part of me wants to be bothered by it but I can’t fully because I get hit on by girls and I am very girlie and I LOVE everything a man has LOL. I’ve even gotten hit on by other girls in front of him, we just laugh it off.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

yes

my husband has what we jokingly call “gay mannerisms”

He worked for a gay man when he was young who was like a father to him and I think he picked up some body postures and phrases from him. So, he’s been hit on by men, he even had a guy at work make him a cd with songs he said made him think of my husband and listening to the songs you can tell he was trying to send a message (most of them were love songs)

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

Yeah, both my ex and my current SO have. Though my SO did a little exploration in that direction at the beginning of college, so it doesn’t really surprise me. I mean, I occasionally get hit on by women or find myself attracted to a guy I later find out is gay. I don’t see it as being a big deal.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Actually, yes. He was at a bookstore, browsing the sci-fi/fantasy section, and there was another guy there. The guy asked him about book recommendations or something, and then asked if Fiance was from around here, and said he had to go, but he hoped to see Fiance around sometime. Cracks me up every time I hear it.

He’s also gotten a lot of compliments from the (straight) guys I work with. I have a really nice picture of him up at my desk, and several of the guys have been like, “Wow, who is THAT?” Oh, that’s my Fiance. “He looks like a model!” haha.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

My fiance has been hit on numersous amount of times by other men. I find it hilarious!!! WE went to a party once and this guy was there who is a friend of a friend..he was in love with my fiance and was like “your boyfriend is sooooooo hot” hahhaha! I was so funny and to top it off he then tried adding my fiance to facebook the next day

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

@Girasole:  My SO dresses nice and is very well groomed as well and he always smells so so good…I would think that by now he would be smelly just once lol. I love that the “old women” love him and by him clothes hahaaa 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

haha! Yes, my-apparently-straight-brother tried to drunken kiss my Darling Husband a few years ago!

I say haha, because I KNOW my Darling Husband would never act on it and I think my brother is bi, he just hasn’t admitted it to anyone.

 

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

My Fiance isn’t feminine at all, but not all gay men are feminine. He IS always well-groomed and decently dressed, though he gets hit on by women, too.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

yes. the most recent time was a few weeks ago at my best friend’s birthday party. my friend is gay and the party was at his and his husband’s place. Darling Husband and i were the only straight couple there! he got hit on by one of the guys even though the guy knew Darling Husband is straight (we’ve met the guy before too). no biggie. Darling Husband took it as a compliment. 🙂

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oh yeah, this has actually happened to the both of us.

Post # 14
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481 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Yes. My bf and I were out with some female friends at a Korean bbq place and one of the waiters (not ours) came over to our table and said (with heavy asian accent) “You are very handsome” and then just stood there and none of us really knew what to do, we probably laughed and made him feel bad. But it was so incredibly awkward!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

In the liberty center where my hubby is stationed, there’s apparently a young sailor who frequents it as well and is always staring at him, and then apparently averting his eyes when my husband catches him.

 

I havemade so many jokes over the phone about it. *hums “In the Navy”*

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We were at a well known west coast party with one of my good friends who is gay. There were a bunch of gay guys behind us and our friend started talking too loudly. A squabble started between the guys behind us and my friend. My fiancé turned around to tell the guys that we would be quiet and all was good. Then he put his arm around me. All of a sudden I hear one of the guys behind us say “oh my. What a waste of a straight man!” I nearly died laughing.

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