Post # 1
We’re about 25 days from our wedding, and I’m noticing that my focus at work is just really bad. I have everything on the brain from flowers to candles to food to timelines, but doing actual work at my desk is just too difficult! It doesn’t help that my job is really, “just a job” but I’m not usually the kind of person who lacks focus. Also, weddingbee doesn’t help in that department 🙂 I seriously hope that my supervisor doesn’t notice, and if she does, I hope she doesn’t blame me *too* much!
Anyone else having the same problem? Have you noticed that your work ethic is just dwindling as it gets closer? Do you plan on being at all productive at work the week before your wedding?
Post # 3
Imagine me. I am 3 days away from the wedding and I am sitting here at work. I have no motivation let alone the brain power for this, lol.
Post # 4
Hahaha…I’m laughing because this is me!! And my wedding isn’t until MAY 2010!! I spend a lot of my time on wedding bee or other sites looking for ideas and inspiration while I’m at work! Mind you I have no patients at the moment but I could always be doing something work related…NOT!!!
Post # 5
Well, I wouldn’t say I was overly enthusiastic to begin with, but ever since wedding planning stuff and Weddingbee in particular came into my life, my afternoons at work are pretty much just a formality. I’m productive in the morning and then after lunch it’s all pretending to work and posting on here or researching stuff. Did I mention I’m an August 2010 bride? Yeah, so, I’m a bad employee… but they are bad employers so I don’t feel too bad 🙂
Post # 6
I’m 4 days away and I sit at a desk all day. I have started pacing a lot this week because I have other things I could be doing (wedding stuff) and I am just so excited!
Post # 7
Phew! I’m glad I’m not the only one!
@kittyachi: I’m in the same boat. I have really productive mornings, but after lunch, my work ethic is pretty much out the door. I seriously just can’t focus on anything besides the wedding!
Post # 8
Im 10 days out, and Ive done less than the bare minimum for the last, like 2 weeks. I callit senioritis. Everyone here understands
Post # 9
YES! And I’m two months away…. I don’t know how I’m going to do it and keep my job (which I hate either way, but that’s beside the point!).
Post # 10
Wow, yeah, I don’t think my boss has any idea how focused on the wedding I was during the weeks leading up to the wedding. It’s not that I neglected my work, I just wasn’t as focused as I could have been!
Post # 11
I have been a space cadet at work for weeks and it only gets worse at the big day gets closer! You’re not alone!!!
Post # 12
Mine has been bad, but I just got a new job, so with short timers syndrome, it’s miserable. I am not sure that 2 weeks before my wedding is an ideal time to start a new job, but you do what you have to.
Post # 13
- Wedding: June 2010 - The Mountain Terrace, Woodside, CA
You guys are not alone! But I’m the opposite, I usually goof off in the morning, then get to actual work after lunch (with short Weddingbee ‘refresh’ breaks). Only a little over 9 months til my wedding….I don’t know how my focus will get any better between now and then!
Post # 14
I’m 3 days away and officially finished my project and just waiting for feedback so I’m completely antsy just sitting here and WAITING. Agh, it’s almost better to be busy and have something else to focus on!
Post # 15
Um yes….I usually try to do good, then someone calls about something…flowers, dress…then I get totally off track and start thinking about other things!
Post # 16
HAHA, it’s been months since the wedding and I’m STILL addicted to WB! It’s hard to get online at work, but when I do I’m always on here. So sad and yet so…fun!