(Closed) Has your outlook and party attitude changed since being married?

posted 7 years ago in New York City
Post # 3
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I don’t know if living in NYC has anything to do with it, I think that’s pretty normal. IMO the major downside to living in this city is that the bars stay open all night. So my friends and Out of Town guests want to stay out until 5-6am all the time. It’s exhausting! I never really liked doing that, but definitely don’t now that I’m older, married and trying to save for my first home.

I actually see more of my friends now, we’re more on a regular schedule of going to dinner and book club. And now that the wedding planning is over I have Out of Town friends stay with us more often. Hopefully your friends aren’t ditching you just because you’re married now though, I would think maybe they are just not going out as much.

Post # 5
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44 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2011

We’re getting married next month, i find myself not hanging out with friends as much but mostly because i’m trying to save money.  $100 spent in one night on dinner and drinks can go towards my flowers or spending money on the honeymoon etc.  i think (hope) after the wedding things will go back to normal and i’ll go out again, or entertain at home more.  entertaining at home cost a lot too so i don’t do it as much any more, bottles of wine, water, juice snacks & finger food add up!

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