(Closed) Has your SO ever called you a bitch?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Has your SO ever called you a bitch?

    Yes, in an argument

    Yes, as a joke

    No, Never

    Other, please explain

  • Post # 3
    1348 posts
    Bumble bee

    I voted “Yes, as a joke” but we say “britch” as our joking word so I’m not sure if that counts.

    Post # 4
    5373 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    He only said it once in an argument (almost two years ago) and apologized right after. He’s never said it again (:

    Post # 5
    2948 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    we have said it to each other when we are being really silly and joking around but not very often.

    the only time hes ever said it out of anger was when he yelled at me “stop acting like such a bitch!”  I replied that I couldnt believe he would call me that and he said “I didnt call you a B, I said your ACTING like one!” lol 

    It kinda made me mad at the time but hes not ever said it to me since.

    Post # 6
    5982 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I dont think so. Not that I can remember (I have a horrible memory). I cannot picture DH ever calling me that so I really doubt it…

    Post # 7
    1629 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I get on his case if he ever calls anyone a bitch. He’s better than that. I am super okay with swearing in general, though.

    Post # 8
    1433 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    GOD NO. But he doesnt swear anyways so he doesn’t call me or anyone else anything. I on the other hand have a potty mouth:/ 


    Post # 9
    60 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Yes he has when we have arguments. I hate it and think it is just disrespectful but I am not peach myself during an argument with him either though. 

    Post # 10
    3482 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    Only as a joke. We’re very sarcastic people who pretend bicker, so when we’re trading mocking barbs, we throw out a few insults here and there. I go with “asshole” or “douche”, he uses “bitch”. It’s all in good fun, we each know the other doesn’t mean anything by it.

    Post # 11
    2729 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    As a joke, yes. But he’s gotten the death stare the few times he’s said it and he immediately takes it back. He’s actually never, ever called me a name during an argument.

    Post # 12
    630 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    He did it in an argument, but only after I called him an a$$hole. It hurt my feelings and that made me think that me calling him what I did probably hurt his feelings, so I don’t think it’s happened since then.

    Sometimes when he’s moody I’ll call him a bitch, but in a joking tone and he doesn’t take offense.

    Post # 13
    2457 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    It’s happened a few times in the 11 years we have been together during very heated arguments, but never when it wasn’t deserved or I had said something as equally offensive.

    Post # 14
    515 posts
    Busy bee

    Hm well I picked yes, but like some have said he says it like ‘you’re being a bitch’ or ‘stop acting like a bitch’ so I guess he’s never said I AM one. We use biznatch when we’re joking, haha. When he’s being serious though, I don’t really care or get offended by it because he only uses it when I really am acting that way. So meh, I don’t care.

    Post # 15
    344 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    DH has never called me that, but he has blurted other words. I don’t condone it but he uses a bad word in front of every other word. He talks like that with his friends and I just give him the evil eye and remind him I’m not one of his buddies. 

    Post # 16
    1091 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Yes, in an argument, and I really didn’t care.  He has a nasty temper that he’s still learning to really control, and I’d rather he call names than punch a wall or something.  As least name calling doesn’t require a trip to Home Depot later 🙂  I have that same kind of temper, so I get it- heat of the moment, you’re not really thinking, it just pops out.  I’ve said some pretty bad things too.  We also generally curse like sailors, so I guess it just generally wouldn’t have the same sting to either of us as to someone who doesn’t curse so much.

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