(Closed) Has your SO ever fallen asleep? (TMI)

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
9816 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

Yes it happened once a couple of years ago, while he was fingering me. I was VERY hurt and angry. But we moved past it, he hasn’t fallen asleep since, and has never fallen asleep during sex thank goodness!

Post # 4
1845 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Trying hard not to laugh 🙂 

In all fairness to him, it wasn’t about you being boring, you probably weren’t doing  anything except lying there. He was just tired, and there wasn’t enough stimulation for him to keep him awake. Although it is kind of funny! I’m glad you weren’t mad at him for real, and hey.. At least he made up for it.

Post # 5
161 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

hahahaha omgosh that is crazy! Its never happened to us but Ive woken up my husband in the dead of sleep and weve had sex while he was half asleep haha. I dont mind though, he’s still great at it ; D

Post # 6
231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yes, pretty much same situation as yours, and it took me a few minutes to realize he had actually fully fallen asleep! But once I did grasp it (he gave himself away by snoring.LOUDLY.) I just could not stop giggling, and woke him up because I was laughing so hard.

There were no hard feelings, its not his fault he was really tired, but it was something we had a really good laugh over, and still do.

Post # 7
2755 posts
Sugar bee

lol, he was tired. I’d cut him some slack. I’ve never had a guy fall asleep on me, but I did fall asleep on my ex once. He thought it super cute.

Post # 8
5950 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@LadyBlackheart:  Never underestimate just how tired a person can get….I’ve fallen asleep in the middle of proceedings, Mr. 99 has too, I’ve conked out sitting up in a movie theater while the Death Star got blown up and cruised off into dreamy-dream land at our dining room table during late night game of bridge surrounded by friends and family…it’s nothing personal…sometimes, I’m just REALLY tired.

Post # 9
777 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Bwahaha, poor Darling Husband has nodded off while going down on me twice! (Which is quite a feat, as I don’t exactly lay there like a dead fish, you know?) I wasn’t hurt or mad at all. Mostly amused and really touched. I mean, obviously he was exhausted, but he still wanted to make sure I went to bed satisfied. I think it’s really sweet. Though lately I do try to let him have the night off when I can tell he’s wiped out…

Post # 10
3076 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

He hasn’t fallen asleep on me, but I have totally fallen asleep on him!  It happens.  I’m glad you’re able to laugh about it.  And hey!  He made up for it!!

Post # 11
757 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yeah I definitely fell asleep during sex once, I was really drunk and thought sex was a good idea and fell asleep in the middle of it. Passed out is probably the right term. Fiance was so mad.

Post # 12
9823 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Hasn’t happened to me…but I would probably just laugh it off.  I wouldn’t worry too much!

Post # 13
9129 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

Nope, but I have definitely fallen asleep while we’re in the middle of things.  Oops!  Try not to take it too seriously.  Sometimes you’re just super duper tired, ya know?

Post # 14
9089 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Get a vibrator. Problem solved.

Post # 15
4655 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

We both fell asleep once. It was the middle of the night and we’d been drinking and it was kind of taking a bit… we slowed down, and I dunno what happened but we both woke up like 15ish minutes later still connected. I thought it was hilarious.

Post # 16
32 posts
  • Wedding: December 2013

Yes, lol. While in the act. We both sort of did a bit. I didn’t mind. It was a long day, we were both tired, and it was soothing and relaxing. I actually kind of liked that he was comfortable enough with me to.

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