Post # 1
So late last night, I was in the mood but my Boyfriend or Best Friend wasn’t. He was pretty tired but I still had that feeling like…basically, an itch that needed to be scratched lol. Anyway, Boyfriend or Best Friend decides to do something for me to get rid of that “itchy” feeling. So he starts to um…finger my lady parts.
But here’s the thing. He fell asleep. While his finger was still down there. HE ACTUALLY FELL ASLEEP.
I waited a few seconds to see if he actually fell asleep and once I realized he had, I woke him up. I said to him very loudly, “Did you just fall asleep?!”
He woke up, startled. And he goes “What? No. No I didn’t.”
I just gave him a look.
Then he starts saying “Oh God…I did. I fell asleep. I’m so sorry honey! I can’t believe I did that!”
At this point, I’m just incredulous and frustrated at the same time. And I get out of bed and walk out of the room. To be clear, I wasn’t really mad at him…I was a little miffed but not really that bad.
I was more hurt than mad. Like am I that boring that he would fall asleep on me?? That was my general feeling.
Anyway, we’re good now. We made up. Lol when I walked back into the room, he was wide awake. And when I suggested we go to bed, he was like “Can we wait a while?” Then of course, he was determined to “make up” for him falling asleep. So he did lol.
So has this ever happened to you ladies? Has a man ever fallen asleep during sex or foreplay? I suppose I should count myself lucky that it didn’t actually happen during sex, just the foreplay part. But still. I still can’t believe this happened! Lol
Post # 3
Yes it happened once a couple of years ago, while he was fingering me. I was VERY hurt and angry. But we moved past it, he hasn’t fallen asleep since, and has never fallen asleep during sex thank goodness!
Post # 4
Trying hard not to laugh 🙂
In all fairness to him, it wasn’t about you being boring, you probably weren’t doing anything except lying there. He was just tired, and there wasn’t enough stimulation for him to keep him awake. Although it is kind of funny! I’m glad you weren’t mad at him for real, and hey.. At least he made up for it.
Post # 5
hahahaha omgosh that is crazy! Its never happened to us but Ive woken up my husband in the dead of sleep and weve had sex while he was half asleep haha. I dont mind though, he’s still great at it ; D
Post # 6
Yes, pretty much same situation as yours, and it took me a few minutes to realize he had actually fully fallen asleep! But once I did grasp it (he gave himself away by snoring.LOUDLY.) I just could not stop giggling, and woke him up because I was laughing so hard.
There were no hard feelings, its not his fault he was really tired, but it was something we had a really good laugh over, and still do.
Post # 7
lol, he was tired. I’d cut him some slack. I’ve never had a guy fall asleep on me, but I did fall asleep on my ex once. He thought it super cute.
Post # 8
@LadyBlackheart: Never underestimate just how tired a person can get….I’ve fallen asleep in the middle of proceedings, Mr. 99 has too, I’ve conked out sitting up in a movie theater while the Death Star got blown up and cruised off into dreamy-dream land at our dining room table during late night game of bridge surrounded by friends and family…it’s nothing personal…sometimes, I’m just REALLY tired.
Post # 9
Bwahaha, poor Darling Husband has nodded off while going down on me twice! (Which is quite a feat, as I don’t exactly lay there like a dead fish, you know?) I wasn’t hurt or mad at all. Mostly amused and really touched. I mean, obviously he was exhausted, but he still wanted to make sure I went to bed satisfied. I think it’s really sweet. Though lately I do try to let him have the night off when I can tell he’s wiped out…
Post # 10
He hasn’t fallen asleep on me, but I have totally fallen asleep on him! It happens. I’m glad you’re able to laugh about it. And hey! He made up for it!!
Post # 11
Yeah I definitely fell asleep during sex once, I was really drunk and thought sex was a good idea and fell asleep in the middle of it. Passed out is probably the right term. Fiance was so mad.
Post # 12
Hasn’t happened to me…but I would probably just laugh it off. I wouldn’t worry too much!
Post # 13
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
Nope, but I have definitely fallen asleep while we’re in the middle of things. Oops! Try not to take it too seriously. Sometimes you’re just super duper tired, ya know?
Post # 14
Get a vibrator. Problem solved.
Post # 15
We both fell asleep once. It was the middle of the night and we’d been drinking and it was kind of taking a bit… we slowed down, and I dunno what happened but we both woke up like 15ish minutes later still connected. I thought it was hilarious.
Post # 16
Yes, lol. While in the act. We both sort of did a bit. I didn’t mind. It was a long day, we were both tired, and it was soothing and relaxing. I actually kind of liked that he was comfortable enough with me to.