(Closed) Has your SO ever fallen asleep? (TMI)

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Ahahaha this thread made me smile. My FH has never fallen asleep but I can see how it happens!

Post # 18
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yes he has! More than once, too. I was kinda annoyed and either would bitch at him or finish the job myself LMAO

Post # 19
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@LadyBlackheart:  FI and I had really drunken sex one night and both fell asleep midway through, (at around about the same time) and then woke up and kept going, then dozed off for a bit. 

It was pretty funny when we woke up the next morning!

Post # 20
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Don’t take it to heart! Everyone has their moments! 🙂

Post # 21
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Lmfao, yes he has.

Fiance was “helping me” one time. All of a sudden, I hear snoring. I said, “Honey, are you sleeping?” He immediately woke up and kept going. HAHAHA. I still make fun of him for it. Poor guy was tired after everything else.

Post # 22
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

He hasn’t fallen asleep on me, but I have on him… and I woke up a minute or two later, and he didn’t notice. Hah! I wasn’t facing him, so he couldn’t tell.

Post # 23
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@LadyBlackheart:  I’ve been waiting for somebody to bring this topic up, because I’ve been too embarrassed to bring it up myself! My Fiance, a couple years ago, was, *ahem*, fingering me and he fell asleep while doing it, too! I was pissed, but we were still newly dating (I think about 5-6 months).

Post # 24
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@LadyBlackheart:  Oh my gosh!  No, this has never happened to me, but I’d be miffed too.  I’m sure you aren’t boring.  I am certain you are a very fun sexytime partner with beautiful lady bits.  I’ve definitely been so tired that I would fall asleep at an inappropriate moment and it sucks that it was THAT moment for your guy! lol.

Post # 25
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My Darling Husband did this backward once! He talks, walks and does lots of other things in his sleep. One night about a year ago we’d gone to bed and had been lying in bed for a little while when he rolled over and started fingering me. I tried to kiss him and ended up waking him up. It turns out he was sleep-fingering me, and he was super confused about what whas happening when he woke. I thought is was hilarious, but he was pretty embarassed and a little spooked.

Post # 26
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I have slept through sex before. Not with my current SO, but a previous partner. I would wake up in the morning with the aftereffects and be like..woah! Apparently I was responsive enough that he didn’t realize I was asleep. It was pretty amusing.

Post # 27
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

we once had so much sex that we both fell asleep, does it count? lol

 

Post # 29
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Awww, that’s so funny / cute / embarrassing. I’m sure he won’t forget it!

We don’t have sex when we’re exhausted – it takes a lot of energy and we both want to make sure we’re mentally in it. Luckily neither of us is really all THAT sex-needy and we can take care of each other the next night. But we’re only a year in… Maybe it’s coming 🙂

Post # 30
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

haha we BOTH fell asleep during foreplay. It was late and we’d been drinking. I woke up very upset in the middle of the night. And I woke him up like “wtf happened.. the last thing i remember is fooling around” and he’s just like “huh oh shit i don’t know” and went back to sleep. I was upset and couldn’t fall asleep for another hour. In the morning he was like “did we stop at one point?” I was like “i don’t think so” and he’s like “it doesn’t make any sense i was very excited about where it was going” I was still upset that we missed out on drunk sex. And it was the last night we could before my period so we had to wait a few days so i was even more upset.

And i’m glad to hear i’m not the only one with the “itch you can’t scratch” feeling. Is it a girl thing? My husband doesn’t understand it at all and usually just tells me to wait till tomorrow when he’s really tired.

Post # 31
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@LadyBlackheart:  That kind of stuff happens to me all the time. He’ll be too tired for actual sex and try to stimulate me and then nod off. He’s never fallen asleep during sex though but I have. There are a few times we were doing it and it feels like we fast-forwarded 20 minutes and he’s finishing up and I realize I nodded off lol.

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