(Closed) has your spouse's attitude changed since you married?

posted 5 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@rozzy:  I will guess by your emoticon that you mean changed for the worst? Can we have a bit more information?

My Fiance and I are common law and I have noticed his behaviour has changed since reaching that milestone as well as leading up to the “official” wedding. But his behaviour has changed for the better (we had struggles early on). What exactly has changed for you?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

@rozzy:  Oh, good! So he’s changed for the better πŸ™‚ I wasn’t sure because it looked like a crying emoticon. He was probably just stressed leading up to the big day and dealing with a lot of big changes (as were you!) and now that things have settled, he’s back to his old self πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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9074 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I can’t say so, no.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@rozzy:  I think that’s common. We were both at each other’s throats leading up to the wedding because we had a lot of stress from the budget for the wedding to dealing with imposing family members. Now, we’ve both changed for the better and for the first time in our very long history, we really see each other as a team.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yes it has only gotten better, My Fiance was always a giver and a gentle soul before we got engaged. It has only intensified he is more determine and has made definite plans. When were dating we didnt really discuss marriage but he knew he wanted to get serious. I just didnt know how serious he was talking about until he proposed.

He does so much to make me happy and feel loved.

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@rozzy:  I think that is normal. Wedding planning is stressful. It is fun, but stressful. And even more so leading up to the day. The week before our wedding I remember myself being overly stressed, and I snapped at my husband one day over something so small. It wasn’t what he did at all, it was just being to stressed, and the “Straw that broke the camel’s back” type of deal.

I said sorry, reminded myself how amazing my husband is, and that I cannot let stress or anything in the like depict how I handle our arguements. My husband forgave me only moments after.

After the wedding it was total bliss, and has been normal since. (This was over two years ago.)

Remember though that no one is perfect, and people will argue–And it’s healthy to do so, if done fair!

But to answer your question- No his attitude has not changed. He is the same sweet, gentle man I married! πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Nothing changed. Lovey before the wedding, lovey after.

Post # 11
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5965 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

When Mr. 99 and I got married he was kind of like this:

But since I was raised around people who are kind of….

it didn’t really phaze me much and I appreciate the entertainment factor of being married to someone who’s feisty….but now, after 5 years and lots of love and understanding and sandwiches, Mr. 99 is like this…

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Nona99:  I adore you.  Simply adore you.  You make me laugh every single time I’m on here.  πŸ™‚

My husband hasn’t changed, he was the sweetest and sexiest guy I’ve ever known before the wedding and still is after the wedding.  I’m smitten.  πŸ™‚

Post # 13
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5965 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@Sunfire:  Likewise lady!  and then some on this end!

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Nona99:  Nona, you are a riot πŸ™‚

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Nona99:  Omg too funny! And idk why but the 2nd bear’s face is hilarious to me!

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