(Closed) Hate mail from my caterer on our 18-month anniversary

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow that is so incredibly rude of her!  What is the point of a message like that honestly?  Just to be a complete rude jerk.

Post # 4
Member
671 posts
Busy bee

omfg! you should review her services on all of the wedding sites! Show that email, tell your story. I cant believe anyone would do that! They need to not be in the wedding buisness!

Post # 5
Member
354 posts
Helper bee

Is there a way for you to find out where the seminar is?  I would be very inclined to find out who is putting the seminar on, and show them this email!  That email is completely unprofessional!!! 

I would be FUMING if I were you.  Post this email including the vendor details everywhere you can.  Other brides need to know that this vendor is the type of company that ridicules brides and their wedding loooong after the fact.

Completely despicable!!!!!!

Post # 6
Member
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

That is really unprofessional and uncalled for. I hope you write her back and tell her not to use your name and/or reference you in any way, shape, or form. I also hope that, if you haven’t already, you report her to the better business bureau.

Post # 7
Member
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

OMG! REVIEW REVIEW REVIEW!!! Screen shot the email and post it on every review site you can think of! WHY would a professional do something like that?! 

Post # 8
Member
263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am furious on your behalf!!!! 

@Karissa:  I absolutely agree.  Shout this from the rooftops, girl 

Post # 9
Member
7082 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

Wow, I remember all of this when it happened.  Why would she dredge up bygones?  I would alert the BBB to this unprofessional behavior!

Post # 10
Member
685 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2009

 OMG! I don’t even know what to say!! I don’t think there wouldn’t be a single thing I wouldn’t try to get a nasty word out there about the business! I’m not sure what your going to do but I do wish you a freaking TON of luck on shutting that business DOWN! I would be LIVID!

Post # 11
Member
2077 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

*Hugs* to you.  Seriously.  I feel like reaching through the computer to hug you…that’s just asinine.

I hope that you review this business online everywhere that you can so other brides know to stay away from this craziness.  I’m sure that this business treat all of their other clients the same way, so it won’t take long for them to close up shop.

Post # 13
Member
2077 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@worcesterbride:  Good for you for forwarding this to your other vendors as well as posting more reviews.  This is one of my biggest fears about planning our wedding…I read reviews everywhere I can, so believe me when I say that your online reviews will NOT go unread.

Post # 14
Member
263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@worcesterbride:  Is the person you are speaking to the owner?  If she’s just the working manager I would get in touch with the head of the company.. that lady deserves to lose her job. 

Post # 15
Member
28 posts
Newbee

Agreed! People need to know to stay away from these insane b*tches. How unprofessional!

I wouldn’t take it to heart. They are clearly insecure, and are taking it out on you.

Post # 16
Member
1851 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

If she is not the owner of the company than you need to get in contact with them pronto and let them know who they have working for them.

I think you need to report them to the BBB and contact the place where this seminar is being held.

Post their names anywhere you can. Someone who would go out of their way to make you feel this way in general, not to mention 18 months after your wedding, is not someone who should be working with people in general.

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