Post # 1
Man, I have such a headache from crying.. but as many of you might have read in many previous posts that me and my Fiance have been apart for a very long time.. ( long distant relationship–) two diff countries and its absolutely hard. weve been already apart since June… Now we were gonna have our civil marriage done this April and our wedding in June- but that seems to really not be part of the plan anymore, as of today. My Fiance might be gettin a second job, ( we will find out for sure tomorow ) and it would help a lot with finances and getting things ready for the June wedding, etc. I totally understand that and I appreciate it so much for him to be going out of his way to take on a second job and work his butt off but I miss him so much already.. but now that I hear that we might have to cancel April and jus stick to june, it gets to me! I kno its just a month a part- and biiiiggg whooppp but I think I had my hopes up way high and was really praying for it to happen so I can see him sooner then June. now I have to wait till JUNE. that means i would have NOT seen him for a YEAR. * gasp * I hate it. so. much.
Oh and theres no way he can take breaks in between since his job only gives him a one time vacation per year- sighhhhhhh. Stupid long distant relationships, I hate you! lol
all better! <3
Post # 3
Its okay. Once your married, you will see him everyday! WIll he still have a job out of country after the wedding? If so, you guys planning on both of u going ?
Either way, hope u will fill the void with calls, texts and video chats with him. 🙂
Post # 4
Awww! I’m sorry!! At least it’s coming to an end soon, one way or another. 🙁 That sucks that you might have to wait a little longer, but it’ll be all worth it!
Post # 5
Can you visit him? just to make things a bit more bearable.
Post # 6
No thank God, once were married, no more parting! lol.. wooo.. but he might keep two jobs for a better comfortable living..we can work through that, so its no big deal. I guess I can just handle the following- 6-7 months. We made it this far, might as well keep going… and omg April was gonna be the time where I can visit HIM but because now hes gettin the second job that means I wont be abl to see him. hell be working ALL day- ( morning and night shifts) 5-6 days a week and one day off. So it wouldnt make any sense to go there and see him once a week really..
Post # 7
Well, the upside is that you have yourself a hard working guy who is busting his butt to make all this possible!
The downside is missing him and being apart. I dont know how you do it – I would be so sad! Maybe get a countdown calendar on your phone so everyday you can see how fast the time is going? I am getting married in June, too, and sometimes it feels so far, but when I count the days I can’t believe how CLOSE it really is!
*hug* you will get through it!