- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2009
I already posted about my husband having “PMS” lately, but I started thinking about it and maybe I’m not making the situation better by making little jabs about his ex wife.
Ever since we got married three months ago, his ex has gone into psycho mode. She’s been demanding, shows up when it’s not her time, just acting like a loon. My husband has joint physical and legal custody of his three sons. The straw that broke the camels back a few months ago was when she BURST into our house demanding school pictures that the boys gave their dad. My daughters were at the top of the stairs while she screamed and cussed at him. He stayed back and just kept telling her she needed to leave, but after that we went ahead and filed a police report just so we had the back up later if we have to go to court.
On Friday, he went hunting with two of his sons while I went shopping and to a movie with his other and my daughters. ALL DAY long his son kept going on and on about his mom, I was nice and listened to it all, but wanted to scream – SHUT UP – I don’t want to hear about her! Later that night we took all the kids to dinner and on our way home I was listening to him talk to my youngest daughter about his mom again. First he said, ” You know, if you were my mom’s daughter you could do whatever you wanted and wouldn’t get yelled at”. I had kind of had it and piped up saying”well, it’s a good thing she’s my daughter then so she’s well-behaved”. Then his other son asked his dad, “Can you leave a girl after you marry her?”. Again, I’d had it and shouted, “No, you can’t.” Right after that, I caught something in the conversation about how their mom was not going to fight fair anymore…WHAT? At that point I made my husband tell the boys they needed to be quiet the rest of the way home, but WHAT THE HECK!?!
A little background – she left him and divorced him. She married the guy she left him for in April. So why the heck are the boys asking these questions? I mean some of the stuff the kids could have just come up with – I understand that. But what is with the “not going to fight fair anymore – that’s totally an adult thing – not a 6 year old phrase.
So, I’ve been making jabs about how she’s trying to steal him, take him from me. I’m sure it’s not helping, but how am I suppossed to feel?
So so long, but has anyone else gone through this?