(Closed) Have I been kicked out?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
6257 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

sounds like it to me! I would send her a text saying “hey just wanted to know if i’m still in your wedding, need to get the dress info if I am!” and see what she says. If she doesn’t answer, sic your Brother-In-Law on it

Post # 4
986 posts
Busy bee

It sort of sounds like she doesn’t want you to be in the wedding any longer… maybe just let her know again that there are no hard feelings, you just don’t want to hold things up by ordering a dress late, etc.? Good luck!

Post # 5
1202 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Sounds like it. lol. I would just let it go and if she doesn’t include you still, buy your own dress and be happy go lucky as a guest. haha

Post # 7
2278 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: Central Park

Sounds like you’ve been kicked out. Too bad she is not going to woman up and tell you. 

Post # 8
1828 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I would just text her and be like “So, am I in the wedding or no? No hard feelings either way; just sort of would like a straight answer!”

Post # 10
376 posts
Helper bee

At this point, you should just operate under the assumption that you’re out, and let it go. It’s really lame how she’s going about it!

Post # 11
958 posts
Busy bee

Just don’t worry about it. It’s her job to tell you dress info, and all that. Just show up at her wedding with the hubs as a guest and not a bridesmaid. 

You’ll probably be saving yourself money! Being a Bridesmaid or Best Man is expensive! And I think you should only do it for people you’re super close to. 

Post # 12
90 posts
Worker bee

If you do choose to ask her about it via text or email, you might want to say include something along the lines of “If I don’t hear back from you by [insert timeframe here], I’m assuming that I am no longer in the bridal party.”  That way, you don’t have to worry about her ignoring the question yet again.  If she ignores the question, you’re out.  Simple.

Post # 13
11734 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

what an immature B. Don’t ask if you’re in it still, tell her you’re out!

Post # 14
502 posts
Busy bee

She needs to put on her big girl panties and tell you that you’re out. Because that’s what it sounds like.

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