Member- Jessilj
- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
So I posted a while ago that I was not sure about my dress.. Being such a big decision to make I can very easily sypathyse with other brides to be in the same boat!
My thought is if you are second guessing your dress at all, after all the fittings, veils etC. Then you may not have chosen a dress YOU love. Sometimes i understand there is money etc that prohibits you from finding another one!
I bought my dress a few months ago: sophia tolli marielena, which is a pretty dress, but I found it hard to say the words “I love it!”.
This churning feeling I had in my gut ever since I bought it made me constantly look online for other dresses (I think I still had that feeling I would find another). Last week looking online I came across a second hand site that sold a dress which had everything I wanted- I LOVE lace, and my current dress did not have lace that I wanted:( whereas this dress is covered! So I have decided to go with the new dress, reason for this being, I am now EXITED for our wedding, and NOW I can see why some brides may find it hard to sell their dresses (I just threw my other dress online so that tells me something!)
so to the brides out there, if you dont LOVE your dress, sleep on it, go home think about it! Don’t let anyone affect the decision you make if you love the dress or not, it is good to get advice but ultimately you’ll know the right decision!
chin up ladies struggling with this, remember when your hair and makeup is done, viel and dress are on you will feel amazing regardless:)
ill like to show my first dress I picked, and the one I went with. (First is sophia tolli – marielena, and second is allure c185:)
Also sorry about the bad photos!! Not looking too good haha, I would really love to hear photos of other brides in the same position, or those who have changed their minds.. And please share your pictures:)
