(Closed) Have I Got A Story for You…! (VENT)

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 17
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Honey bee

Wow, just… Wow. Was she always like this??

Post # 19
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Wow – some people are unreal!

Post # 20
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Bee Keeper

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@bigcitybee  that is so sad that you have to pretend until the big day then disappear as her friend… like I said before, I pity the groom

It’s realy mature of you to go through with the responsibilities as bridesmaid and I hope you have a wonderful and great day at her wedding!

Post # 22
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

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@bigcitybee  Re – Your Reply # 17

You are a very classy gal… so I appreciate that you will not back out with less than 30 days to go.

As someone who has been married before (30+ Years ago) I can give you some good news and say that it is “natural” for friends to change after there is a wedding… folks just drift apart.

So it won’t be difficult for that to happen if that is your desire… lol, once again the classy answer, as she’ll more than likely never have a clue WHY

Post # 23
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@bonkeyball3  Seriously! That is what I was thinking

Post # 24
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@bigcitybee  No I don’t! My bridesmaids are all my best friends and I honestly expect pretty much nothing from them! I even let them pick out their own black dresses to wear. Anything they do for me is so touching and I appreciate it beyond belief! I just want them to be there standing next to me on my big day, they aren’t my slaves and don’t HAVE to do anything for me.

Post # 25
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

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@bigcitybee  how sad 🙁  I would not give her a wedding gift thats for sure, you have gone way above and beyond, your gift was the shower! jsut get her a card and be done with it!

What a B***H, I can not imagine treating anyone this way, how funny would it be if nobody showed up for her wedding due to how she has been acting!

Post # 26
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

She sounds like a former friend of mine. Emphasis on the former.

A word of warning- it will get WORSE on the wedding day.

If I were you I would run, and run very fast. 

There is nothing in this world worse than an entitled brat. She needs slapping. (Ok, so perhaps not literally… I don’t want to condone violence) 😉

Post # 27
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Unbelievable. Why do some girls think being a bride means they can be a brat? Especially to friends and family?? It sucks that you had to experience her true colors.

Post # 28
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Woodwinds

whens the wedding?!

Post # 29
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That really hurt me to read it even though I was not the one throwing that shower. I am really sorry you had to go through that.

Post # 30
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

If this were me, she would become a former friend after the wedding.

Post # 31
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Bumble bee

I don’t think you ranted enough! You deserve wayyyy more of a rant than that for the money you put out. I think you should go back, edit that post up there, and really let it out. you are wayyyy too nice. Even your rant is elegant. You are a stellar friend, classy and I know, you probably won’t do that. But you should.

That sounds like the nicest shower and your efforts are not unnoticed with the other girls. 

Hang in there… 🙂

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