(Closed) Have I made the right decision?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
4313 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yes actually.  Did you plan on staying at your job after you finish your Master’s Degree?

I think what your mom offered is really sweet & it will be better in the long run because you sound super stressed!

I too had a crazy roommate.  She got high flying drunk one night & kicked me out… it was HORRIBLE.  Take care of yourself!

Post # 4
Member
12973 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yes.  If you can’t afford your lifestyle, then you have to make changes.  There will be other jobs, I promise You’re fortunate to have a mother who will let you move back to get you back on your feet!  Good luck!

Post # 6
Member
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@TinkyBelly:  Poor you, that sounds really tough! Hugs. 

I just wanted to share my work story. I run a training programme for people who have lost their jobs in the downturn and want to get into finance (why? Beats me!) 

Anyway, a lot of them have found themselves in similar positions – jobs they loved but couldn’t sustain, companies that had to let them go, major life adjustments. It’s really hard. But we are at the end of one of the programmes now and every day I get calls from our guys who were totally freaked out and demoralised with kids, mortgage worries etc. to say they have been offered jobs in the sector. There are jobs, you’ll find the right one, even if it’s scary now. It sounds like you have a really great support network, and that’s absolutely critical. The one thing I would say right now that I’ve learned from this is LOOK AFTER YOURSELF. Stay positive and take the support you are offered. Your energy is so important. Good luck! Message me any time 🙂

Post # 7
Member
1431 posts
Bumble bee

You absolutely made the right decision. You will be able to focus on school much better when you aren’t stressed about money and a bipolar roomate. Moving back home with my parents before I got married was a great decision for myself as well. Even though it takes some adjusting at first but being able to save money so when you do move out again it won’t be such a struggle is such a blessing.  Jobs come and go. I don’t know what you did but chances are you wouldn’t do that the rest of your life so I think its best what your doing. Good luck!

The topic ‘Have I made the right decision?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors