- 6 years ago
I am new to the boards and in a strange position! Me and Boyfriend or Best Friend have been together for just under a year. We are both in our late twenties and had long term relationships before so when we met we knew. We just knew 🙂
So the talk of marriage came up quite quickly and having found the perfect venue we booked it a few months ago. Boyfriend or Best Friend told me to look for a ring (I am quite particular with the style I like) as he didn’t want to get me something that wasn’t perfect. We went ring shopping together and looked online and then we found a ring we both loved. So this ring was sized and ordered and Boyfriend or Best Friend has had it for about a week now. It is crazy waiting for the proposal, I know he wants it
to be special but how long will the wait be? Has anyone else been in this position? He is openly excited for the wedding, calls me Mrs (his surname) and tells me how he can’t wait. But I am
in limbo haha!
I never imagined a proposal / wedding planning would go like this! But then I never imagined I’d meet the man of my dreams!
How do I keep my cool! Do I not mention it and then pretend I’ve forgotten? I really want to have the element of surprise, even though I know it’s coming (if that makes sense) but
I’m scared I will lose control and nag him into it. Help!! Xx