Post # 1
Things are settled down, and I find my mind drifting back to that sympathy card from my oldest friend with whom I have not spoken this year….
I don’t know why exactly, but today its on my mind….
If you were me, what would you do, if anything?
Post # 3
@Nona99: Maybe just a handwritten thank you note?
Post # 4
@Nona99: That’s a tough one. There is a lot of history between the two of you, and it sounds like her fella refuses to stop being such a douchenozzle.
From an outsider’s perspective, it really seems like she has likely wanted to contact you before now, but her pride and embarassment over her FI’s behavior was getting in the way. As terrible as it is, your personal tragedies gave her an opening to try to reconnect.
Ultimately, you have ALL of the power here. 🙂
So really, what you need to ask yourself is whether YOU want her in your life any longer, considering the baggage she brings with her.