- 14 years ago
I’m so so upset right now… a couple months ago my Maid/Matron of Honor send out an email to 8 of my closest bridesmaid & friends about doing a Santa Barbra wine tasting trip she made sure to include the dates and the costs associated with the weekend. Pretty affordable considering most Vegas bachelorette weekends can get expensive. ( I am totally paying for my share of the hotel room etc.) Anyways everyone said they were in. Its now a week and half until the my bachelorette and one of my bridesmaids has not returned any of my calls regarding if she is for sure coming or not. She does live out of town, and hasnt come to my engagment party or my shower (even though she was in town!). I was fine with that I understand that not everyone can make it, but she promised to come on the trip and now I might have to cover her cost if she flakes, I’m so stressed out right now with money anyways I am thinking about cancelling. I’ve been sooooooo careful with bridesmaid costs.. the dresses were only $115 and they can wear what every shoes/jewelry etc. Dont have to get their hair or makeup done either. I should mention all my bridesmaids have professional jobs all making good money so its not like she is a student or something. I am so heartbroken I dont know what to do.