(Closed) Have you?

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: have you ever allowed entry from the back door?

    once...not a fan

    every once in a while

    all the time


  • Post # 91
    52 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    My husband wants to do it very badly. I showed him this post. I never want to do it.

    Post # 92
    312 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

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    @blldgpuppy:  After the slip with my ex I said I would never do it but Fiance wanted to try it badly.  I just made sure I had enough to drink that it wouldn’t be as bad.  It wasn’t horrible but I didn’t like it so we won’t do it again.  I don’t understand some women’s appeal with it. 

    Post # 93
    3571 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

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    @sorrycharlie: I didn’t read everyone else’s posts, but I would say that seriously: 

    If it hurts, you’re not doing it right!

    That said, (and without going into too much detail) its something that you really should work up to. If he’s really interested in exploring something that together, I would reccomend going looking up some legit resources on how to become comfortable with that, invest in some toys (of various sizes starting from very small) and quality lube, and occassionally play with them until you think you’re comfortable. 

    Neither of you should expect something like that to be fun/possible overnight. It would likely take months.

    And even then, I would say to have realistic expectations. It’s not going to be like it is in adult videos. Men can’t just pound away.

    Sorry, I hope tha wasn’t Too Much Information.


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