(Closed) Have you always dreamed of your wedding day?

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
  • poll: Have you always dreamed of your wedding day?
    Of course! Ever since I was a little girl! : (3 votes)
    10 %
    Yes, but later in life when I started serious relationships : (6 votes)
    20 %
    Yes, when I met FI : (4 votes)
    13 %
    Only after I got engaged : (10 votes)
    33 %
    Other : (3 votes)
    10 %
    No, not even now! : (4 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4001 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I seriously never thought about my wedding day until my Fiance and I had been seriously dating for about 3 years.  The women in my family have never been really into the whole dream wedding thing, they seriously all either eloped or went to city hall or never legally married at all so this is a novelty to all of us.  That’s why its so exciting!

    Post # 4
    Member
    1207 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    Nope, didn’t start thinking “Wedding” until after the engagement.  I used to think that I wouldn’t ever get married, I liked being single too much!

    Post # 5
    Member
    3285 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    I am with otb!  My feelings exactly =)

    Post # 6
    Member
    369 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I have been engaged twice… and with the first one I had a very hard time imagining the wedding. I could’nt piece it together and couldnt make decisions or anything.

    But now, being engaged to my actual soulmate it is much easier. I’m not sure if it’s because I can see the marriage so I can see the wedding… or if it’s becuase I don’t care what anyone else thinks of the “production” part. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 7
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    1854 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I have always dreamt of getting married. Not necessarily the wedding day in all its details, but being at the altar and promising unconditional love and commitment to someone fabulous (while wearing a gorgeous gown!); that has always been in my head, yes!! Hopeless romantic…

    Post # 8
    Member
    2475 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Ha…I think you need to have an option for “No”.  I never really did and I still wouldn’t say that I “dream” of it now.  If I had my choice I would elope or do something very simple and small.  The only reason we are having a more traditional wedding is because my Fiance wants it…and I’m just trying to make the best of it!

    Post # 9
    Member
    2476 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Not really.  I would date guys and maybe the thought of “can I see myself married to him?” would cross my mind.  That answer was NO until I met Fiance.  ๐Ÿ™‚  Now I’m kinda wedding-obsessed, lol!

    Post # 11
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    1408 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’ve been engaged before, but never actually pictured the wedding or what marriage would be like. I’ve never been one to plan my dream wedding or even one to want to be married. Once I started to plan after my Fiance and I got engaged, its all coming together. I can see our wedding and our marriage. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 12
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    3316 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I said, “Other.”  I really didn’t dream of my wedding day, even after getting engaged.  I was excited about being married, but not so much about the day itself.

    ETA:  Oops, missed the last choice!

    Post # 13
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    5921 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Fiance and I dated for about 3 years before I ever even thought about a wedding.  I started a new position coordinating events, and become fascinated by the weddings.  Then I started thinking about ours.  Luckily Fiance proposed soon after ๐Ÿ™‚

    But now, wedding planning has lost the appeal.  I feel sort of out of it,  I do it so much for work that it feels like a job.

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