(Closed) Have you cheated or have you been cheated on?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Have you cheated on your SO/have you been cheated on?
    I have cheated on a previous/current SO before : (106 votes)
    32 %
    I have been cheated on by a previous/current SO : (102 votes)
    31 %
    I have been cheated on multiple times by previous/current or multiple SO's : (39 votes)
    12 %
    I have never experienced cheating in any form that I am aware of : (75 votes)
    22 %
    I suspect I have been cheated on or he is currently cheating, but I don't have proof : (12 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    223 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    you can only vote once! lol. i have cheated on a bf before. but i was young and in college and not ready for a relationship. i just didn’t know how to tell him that. i’ve also been cheated on by my first love who broke my heart. i must add though, that i cheated on the guy after i got cheated on. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    2313 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I have never cheated, and as far as I know of, have never been cheated on. The only time I thought I’d come close, when I really found myself attracted to someone who was not my boyfriend, was in college, and I had enough sense to at least break up with the current boyfriend before pursuing the new guy. I just see no reason not to attempt to be way decent to one another!

    Post # 6
    Member
    686 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    My ex cheated on me and lied about it for a month even after being confronted multiple times. They’re now engaged. They deserve each other though.

    Post # 7
    Member
    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I have never cheated and I’ve never caught someone cheating. There was once I thought my ex cheated on me but he denied it. After-the-fact I’m pretty sure that he did, but I’ll never know for sure. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Shouldnt this be a choose more than one option poll?

    Post # 9
    Member
    3222 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I have been cheated on before by an ex…it was horrible. It was an LDR and he was a man-whore. I even told him I loved him. UGH! Jerks…

    I’m so glad to have Fiance 🙂

    Post # 10
    Hostess
    11246 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I think I was cheated on in my last relationship although he said he didn’t. But you do the math – we split up at New Year, by the February he told me he was dating, they got engaged in the June and got married in the October. Prat ha ha.

    Post # 11
    Member
    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I cheated on my first boyfriend (from high school) when I first went away to college. I was 17/18 and stupid. I have also been cheated on by a past boyfriend.

    Post # 12
    Member
    5273 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I have cheated & been cheated on – this was in HS and are “relationship” was hardley serious, so we were just young and foolish.

    Post # 13
    Member
    6661 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I’ve caught an ex cheating. It was really sad b/c he was my first love and we had been dating for 3.5 years. Went to separate colleges, but vowed to stay together. Two weeks into school I ‘caught’ him cheating since his roomate told me where he was, in another girls dorm room, and gave me her #. I was crazy enough to call at the time and caught them in the act.

    AS far as me cheating, I’ve technically cheated. I hate to say it because it wasn’t sneaky low down dirty cheating like you’d imagine. I just was in a bad relationship about 2 weeks too long and it took me hooking up with another guy (DH) to end it. I’m not proud of the sequence of events, but I was young and stupid and very weak.

    Post # 15
    Member
    3012 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I’ve been cheated on several times.  My ex of three years did it openly and his parents were completely fine with it.   I was just the controlling bitch because I got upset he’d go spend time with the other girl.

    Post # 16
    Member
    5572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I have both cheated and been cheated on. I was in a LDR with a guy when I was 18 and for our whole relationship I had that gut feeling that something wasn’t right. I’d caught him talking to other girls and so I had my “friend” who he didn’t know start flirting with him on chat and see what he did. Wellll she told me that he didn’t say/do anything inappropriate. I snooped, found their chat conversations and found out that they had been talking a lot and meeting up and being completely inappropriate. I ended both relationships. He’s the only guy I’ve ever cheated on. I won’t make excuses because it wasn’t the right thing to do at all.
     
    I was also always a girl with a back up plan in my past relationships. Even if I didn’t “cheat” I would have another guy “friend” who I knew could potentially be more and I’d stay in contact because I knew that my (then) current relationship wouldn’t last. I’m not proud of that fact at all. FI is the first person who I’ve been with with whom I haven’t felt any need to have a back up person. He’s the right one!

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