(Closed) Have you cheated or have you been cheated on?

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Have you cheated on your SO/have you been cheated on?

    I have cheated on a previous/current SO before

    I have been cheated on by a previous/current SO

    I have been cheated on multiple times by previous/current or multiple SO's

    I have never experienced cheating in any form that I am aware of

    I suspect I have been cheated on or he is currently cheating, but I don't have proof

  • Post # 47
    452 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I cheated when I was 12. People say it doesn’t count, I partially agree: I was VERY young, yet I feel I was mature enough and I knew exactly what I was doing.

    For the record I would never hold other 12 year olds accountable for that.

    OK – I know it’s weird.

    Post # 48
    1314 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I was once the other woman for a short period of time, and it is one of the darker moments in my history. I was very young and naive, though that hardly excuses it. That was so many years ago and I’ve never come close to even thinking of cheating on Fiance. He is amazing and if anything, that blip in my past makes my desire to commit to him 100% that much stronger.

    Post # 49
    268 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I only cheated on someone back when i was young and dumb. I was with the guy from 18 to early 20s. It was an unhealthy and abusive relationship. I never did it to anyone (nor would i) else. I’ve been cheated on a lot as well.


    Just because you have cheated, doesn’t mean you will cheat again. I’d NEVER cheat on my Fiance. I LOVE him more than anything else.

    It’s true that the thought of me hurting him makes me sick and makes me want to cry.

    If you think you have even a slight chance of cheating, don’t get married.

    Post # 50
    90 posts
    Worker bee

    My wife cheated on me 6 months into our relationship – 7 years ago. It was a 1 time instance and she told me almost immediatly. It took a long time to forgive her. I’m actually not sure I have forgiven her 100% but I’ve moved on. All these years later it still affects me to a certain degree, my self esteem. I don’t think she has any clue how much it still bothers me to this day.

    I’ve never cheated and I never could. I couldn’t do to someone what was done to me.

    Post # 51
    16 posts

    They say women are more likey to take back a man who has committed physical cheating, and men hate when woman emotion cheat.

    I have been cheated on my by current boyfriend. It took 4 months, and that girl told me at his sisters wedding of all days!!! she wasnt suppose to be there, and he hasnt seen her after that, but he explained everyhing to me and cried and his friends cried because they never told me, major cry fest.

    but all in all i forgave him, we now have a 7 month old daughter, but it brought us closer (and it was like a one night stand i guess physical obviously). This girl was in high school too (bad on his part). he was drinking and she came onto him.

    but it has brought us closer, although its still hard to trust sometimes, and he knows that peice of me will never trust him, but weve been working things out. its been 2 years since the incident.


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