(Closed) Have you ever….

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you done either of the following for your SO?
    Strip Tease : (9 votes)
    17 %
    Lap Dance : (5 votes)
    10 %
    Both : (38 votes)
    73 %
  • Post # 3
    148 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Yep! I actually took a striptease/lap dancing class before I met him. GREAT WORKOUT! He also enjoys it.

    Post # 4
    1165 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    No, I have never worked up the courage to even think about doing either.  I’d like to someday, I’m just very self conscious about my dance skills and I’ve never felt comfortable putting on any kind of “show.” 

    It really would be fun though!

    Post # 5
    1246 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    i havent for my hubby, but i have for a previous boyfriend. so sad to say, but i used to be a lot more adventurous! it was fun!

    Post # 6
    7586 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    It doesn’t matter what you do, your SO will love it regardless. We as woman need to learn to own our bodies and realize that men, and def the one’s that love us, love our bodies too (unless he tells you otherwise which is abusive, but that’s not for this post). He will enjoy the fact that you put in the effort and that you were willing to do it for him. Let go the insecurities and just do it!

    Post # 7
    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    ok… a Too Much Information warning so you have been warned…

    when i first met my hubby i was a bit self conscious about my body so one night we turned the lights low and he stood very close behind me and helped me undress myself and touch myself – totally turned us both on but more importantly it helped me feel more comfortable and less shy

    now i enjoy being hussy, heck ive tied him to a chair and given him a lap dance – poor man, all his fault i tell him


    Post # 10
    186 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I used to be in the biz…….dancing in gentleman’s club, BUT believe it or not I have never danced for Fiance.

    Post # 12
    642 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I got a dance work out DVD and it gave me a lot of the basic steps and it showed me how easy it is. It’s been forever since I worked out with it but I still remember the basics. He will love anything you do!

    Post # 13
    14492 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I read in playboy mag that men voted the number one sexiest thing to be a lap dance in one of his white shirts and nothing else.  I know my FH would agree 😉

    Post # 14
    2295 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I have a collection of lingerie we have shopped for together and I know he would love another lap dance in one of those-I think the best is to have him sitting on the bed and you sitting over him; its more comfortable than a chair, believe me.

    and if thats Too Much Information Im really sorry!

    Post # 15
    923 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I haven’t before, but I would like to.  🙂

    Post # 16
    513 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Come to think of it…I haven’t done either. Boy I am boring LOL.

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