(Closed) Have you ever been accused of something you didn't do?

posted 5 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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966 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Yep. Apparently there were rumors at work that I’d slept with the assistant store manager because I got promoted. He was like a mentor and my favorite manager, and I talked to him a lot… but that was definitely it. He’s a very loyal family guy (two kids and a wife whom he LOVED) and there was NOTHING between us; he was like… an uncle. lol I even gave him a wedding anniversary card. 

Needless to say… really horrible and insulting and confusing. People just suck. 

Post # 4
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642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@yanamari:  Ugh thats so stupid!  I hate when people do that, theyre just jealous!

 

OP did someone delete texts?  I know it wasnt you lol just curious how she would know she had texts if they were deleted

Post # 5
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6359 posts
Bee Keeper

Maybe she was accusing your mom.

Yes, my good friend accused me of something she should have known I would not have done (She trusted someone’s word on it when she should have known not to trust that person).

I was vindicated, and I got a lame apology from her.

I was hugely offended by the whole thing. I realized that if my friend accused me of something so out of character for me, because someone she was previously too smart to trust told her so, my friend has become a poor judge of character and not a very good friend anymore. When our friendship ended shortly after that (not from that directly, but also because my friend had changed into someone I don’t know anymore), I wasn’t surprised.

Post # 7
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966 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@kjo:  haha my mom said that too. It actually was probably the case, because I was 20, and the woman who started the rumor (supposedly) was in her 50s and never made it beyond supervisor. 

 

@theone99:  Oh right, sister… lol siblings. I’d never let my brother get away with that crap. I’d totally call him on it. I’d just respond directly on her fb and say “Wow, passive aggressive much? Seriously didn’t delete texts on your phone. Why on earth would I want to?”

I mean… why WOULD you want to? It just doesn’t even make sense. 

Post # 9
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1813 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I got accused and beaten up because I’d apparently slept with some bloke, who I’d never even met. When the accuser realised her mistake, her ‘apology’ was “Not my fault, and probably I’ve saved some other poor cow from you shagging their boyfriend by showing you what happens to sluts.” Yeah talk to the police love cos I aint listenting.

 

Post # 11
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3693 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@theone99:  Is she always this paranoid?  What the heck makes her think she got any text messages in the first place?

Post # 13
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6359 posts
Bee Keeper

@theone99:  That’s unfortunate. Since you’ve already told her you didn’t do it I would just hold my head high and ignore her accusations. Any idea why she is accusing you?

She will probably eventually figure out what actually did happen (such as, maybe she was looking in the wrong place for the messages, or whatever, I really don’t know, but it’s not your obligation to solve her mystery).

Post # 15
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966 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@theone99:  Bleh. That sucks = Maybe she can check phone records?

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