(Closed) have you ever been to a wedding where the entire inlaw side was ..ugh no words

posted 8 years ago in Family
  • poll: What should I do?
    completely ignore that side of the room : (3 votes)
    12 %
    shake hands and play nice (even though it would be a fake gesture) : (19 votes)
    76 %
    sit at the bar and not remove myself until the night is over : (3 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
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    8353 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Can you hire security?

    That is what I would do. I would also play nice, but stay alert for any behavior that is not good.

    Post # 5
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    8353 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I think under the circumstances, it would be a very wise decision. Even if everything goes okay, it would give you and the rest of the guests peace of mind and also having security visable might deter fist fights or other bad things.

    Post # 6
    Member
    494 posts
    Helper bee

    Ugggg! I would be more scared that your poor sister has to put up with them the rest of her life. Frown 

    But in all seriousness, I dont think there is much you can do. If you cant afford to hire security then you should just play nice and hope that they do the same. When dealing with people without scruples you never know what can happen.

    Post # 7
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    112 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’ll be smiling & ignoring a few people on my own wedding day, hopefully they will respect the day and stay out of trouble.  Trust me when I say, I feel your anxiety!!  Just kill them with kindness, and at the end of the day if something does start to go wrong, remind them why they are there & that its not all about them.  Hopefully nobody will want to cause a scene that day at all!

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