(Closed) have you ever cheated?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: have you ever cheated on your boyfriend/husband/fiance?
    Yes : (85 votes)
    29 %
    No : (209 votes)
    71 %
  • Post # 3
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    4430 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @bebero:  nope and i never will i love my best friend/fiance too much to hurt him i do not even want to be with anyone else but him. hes all i need ; ) and i thank God i found the perfect man to put up with me lol im kinda crazy wacky girl and he loves all of me just the way iam faults and all. i would never disrespect/violate him in any way.

    Post # 5
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    1082 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I had a 6 month affair in 2011.

    After DH found out he kicked me out and slept with my (ex) best friend.

    I won’t go into the nitty gritty but we overcame it and now have the most amazing marriage. I won’t say it is perfect, but it is pretty damn close!

    Post # 6
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    2651 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Not proud of it by any stretch, but I don’t mind telling my story. I had an emotional affair at the end of my first marriage. Emotional affairs aren’t part of your list, but I still answered yes on your poll.

    Post # 8
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    8000 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

    No, never. I’m not going to be all holier than thou about it… I’ve just never been tempted. I also have no desire to complicate my life. Affairs = complications. Who has the time or the energy for complications?

    I’m also quite ruthless with relationships. If they don’t work, I walk. I don’t look elsewhere to have my needs met instead, etc.

    Post # 9
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    349 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2008

    Nope, never have. I’m not judgy about it, but personally I’ve never put myself in a situation to even be tempted. 

    Post # 10
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    6747 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @RipleyC:  +1 I try to keep myself out of any situation that would get me close enough to a guy to start developing feelings.  Even if I don’t think I will develop feelings, you just don’t want to take the chance. 

    Post # 11
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    3905 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    nope. never would. It took me this long to find him (I’m 38) I’m not going to do anything to jeapordize it!

    Post # 12
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    1066 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2014 - Kentucky Center for the Performing Arts

    Nope never cheated nor had the desire to cheat on him. I know if I did he would end our relationship (he’s been cheated on in the past)…and I can’t bare the thought of being without him b/c of something I did wrong.

    @RipleyC:  I don’t put myself in situations to be tempted either. And situations could be as simple as driving/traveling alone with a male co-worker, etc.

    Post # 13
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    5068 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    No I wouldn’t, I’ve been cheated on before, I would never want to hurt my FH that way. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    14012 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I have in past relationships (bfs), but not my husband

     

    Post # 15
    Member
    349 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2008

    @slc201329:  Exactly 🙂 I’d rather be overly vigilant about protecting my relationship than be too flimsy with boundaries and land myself in an inappropriate and totally preventable situation.

    Post # 16
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    4499 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Nope. Never would. Even if our relationship deteriorated I would still respect him enough to end it before moving on to someone else.

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