(Closed) Have you ever cried during sex?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you ever cried during sex?
    Yes, during : (139 votes)
    31 %
    Yes, after : (121 votes)
    27 %
    Nope : (182 votes)
    41 %
  • Post # 77
    619 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Only once, the first time after FI’s surgery. I was overwhelmed by the fact that I loved him so much and he had survived everything when he shouldn’t have.

    Post # 78
    123 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2015 - The Runnymede Hotel

    Twice ever. Once with an ex, because I knew she was cheating on me, and that I was going to break up with her afterwards. Our relationship was defined by sex, and I was sad to know it was the last time. 


    The first time my current partner gave me an orgasm. Because he was the first person to give me an orgasm EVER (I was perfectly capble by myself, just never with a partner) and I felt so relieved. 

    Post # 79
    21 posts

    Yep, after an orgasam. 😉

    Post # 80
    583 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Equine_Breeder:  I’ll admit I definitely have! I think twice actually but with the same guy. He was my first love, we were broken up and I was just a MESS emotionally. It was a combination of me realllly missing him and thinking sex would bring us back together (I was young and dumb, dont judge!) Haha. 

    Post # 81
    920 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    awkward. but once it was so intense, i basically blacked out for a short period and woke up and was crying like it was some miracle lol. 

    Post # 82
    920 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    @Hyperventilate:  it’s hard to control those emotions sometimes! it might be weird to some people but sometimes it just HAPPENS. its good to let the emotions out. 

    Post # 83
    9098 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    @highschoolhoneys:  Um, okay. I’ve never been so overwhelmed with emotion that I have to burst into tears while my husband and I are doing the nasty.

    But to each their own I guess. If my husband ever did this, my first thought would never be, “It’s good to let it out.” but more like “Uh, what’s wrong with you?”

    Post # 84
    517 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    There’s nothing wrong with anyone who cries during/after sex, to each their own. I’ve never cried during or after sex but I don’t find anything wrong with people who do, not my place to judge.

    Post # 85
    435 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    Yup. I got overwhelmingly emotional and happy once and tried to hide it from SO, but he caught me. He thought it was adorable and has been trying to duplicate the moment ever since – came close once, but not quite. Frankly, I don’t want it to really happen again, it was too much emotion!

    Post # 86
    1846 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    No I never had, I’d find that very weird. 

    We make love very intensely sometimes, but never are tears ever involved. 

    I do remember like the first or second time my husband and I had sex, he blurted out “my god I love you” (I was giving him head), we had only been dating like a week, and we clearly were not At the “I love you phase”, he was so shocked and embarrassed that he said it.. We both burst out laughing.. He then said “I’m sorry, forget I said that, keep going!” lol

    Post # 87
    1643 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    @Equine_Breeder:  yea I have, but weirdly not from sadness but from an overwhelming emotional feeling of love and happiness post O

    Post # 88
    3277 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010


    I have cried during sex because it was so good. I have multiple orgasms and those can be tiring, not to mention very intense.

    I have wept after sex because I was having flashbacks or I felt badgered into unwanted sex.

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