Post # 1
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Newbee
I know this sounds crazy and awful, but I have fantasized about my FI being with other women. Mainly exes. One day, he was telling me a story about about a past relationship, and when he briefly spoke about sex, I got extremely turned on. When we’ve went out in the past, I’ve drunkenly tried to get him to dance with girls that I found attractive (he refused). I actually met his most recent ex, and that threw things into overdrive. I couldn’t stop fantasizing about them together and what their sex was like. I’ve even fantasized about a threesome. These feelings are so out of my character, so much so that I’ve went anonymous for this post! Anyone else ever experience something like this, or am I alone?
Just to be clear, I would never actually want him to be with anyone else. I would be extremely hurt if he were.
Post # 4
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Honey bee
Hm, maybe a couple times. But generally, no. It’s not an idea that turns me on.
Post # 5
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Newbee
@SaugaBride: A simple “no” would have done just fine 🙂
Post # 6
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Busy bee
@Secret_Bee: Yes, but then again, I am also polyamorous, so it’s not a sexual fantasy, more of a compersion sort of fantasy.
Post # 7
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Sugar bee
- Wedding: April 2013 - A court...
No. I sometimes imagine it (after watching Cheaters lol) but I don’t get turned on I start tearing up and wondering what I would do…
Post # 8
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Helper bee
@Secret_Bee: Lmao if it makes u feel better the eww isnt towards u, its thinking of my fiances nasty ex
Post # 9
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Newbee
@Orion: I think it may just be that I find the though of him being pleasured appealing or something, I have no idea!
@atreyu547: Oh wow, that’s funny because I’ve watch Cheaters so many times, but never empathetically. I have no Idea what I’d do in a situation like that, it’s so messed up!
Post # 10
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Busy bee
@Secret_Bee: I can relate. My SO and I have been together for nearly ten years, and I’d be devastated if he ever cheated on me, but I actually have been a bit turned on when thinking about him with his past partners, or when I see a woman checking him out.
He’s really good in bed and has a big penis, so it kinda piques my interest thinking of him making women in the past feel the way he makes me feel (i.e. orgasms during sex etc). However, I’d never try to encourags him to dance with another woman. Lol, I’m too jealous for that.
Post # 11
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Newbee
@SaugaBride: It actually does make me feel better! Lol I feel weird/bad enough about it! This is the first time that I’ve put this out there. Sorry if that came off as defensive.
Post # 12
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Bumble bee
@Secret_Bee: A threesome, yes. But just him with another woman, no.
Post # 13
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Helper bee
@Secret_Bee: hehe nope, hey im as “freaky” as they come, any fetish that works for u, the more power to ya lol
Post # 14
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Newbee
@IheartUFC: This right here folks is the embodiment of what I’m feeling!!! I couldn’t have put it any better myself!
Post # 15
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Sugar bee
- Wedding: April 2013 - A court...
@Secret_Bee:
i wouldn’t mind if he got hit on I think that would be neat since I know he wouldn’t.pursue it.
hehehe one time so came home i was watching it with tears in my eyes and he was like you need to stop! Haha. Not always but some really get to me.
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Busy bee
No… It makes me feel kind of weird and jealous… I can see how it would be a bit of a turn on though!
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