Post # 1
- Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden
Male strippers, female strippers, whatever.
I’ve never gone to see male strippers, although I went to a party where there was a male stripper one time. I was just kind of embarrassed for him.
But I have gone to a club to see female strippers with some guy friends before. I was just curious. And more than anything, I was just disappointed at what bad dancers they all were! I wanted to see some crazy pole action, blackflips and stuff, but most of them could barely walk in their platform lucite heels.
Post # 3
I used to work at a club and you would be surprised how many of the girls do not have any kind of formal dance training. I was brought up in dance and gymnastics so I can work a pole, or at least I used to before I had knee surgery but you can always tell the types who have no clue what they are doing.
Post # 5
I have seen male and female and <eh> on both. Male dancers are just awkward and frankly naked guys are not as visually appealing as naked girls. It kinda just hangs there. Women have curves to keep the eyes busy. And yes, at strip clubs skin goes a long way and it seems dance talent is not required.
Post # 5
Never been to one and don’t plan on going to one either.
Post # 6
Yup….once in the Bronx after a Yankees game (I don’t recommend it), once in the city after a work event, once in update NY and once in Miami…….female strippers…I need to be very tipsy to go because I don’t really love strip clubs…..
Post # 7
I have never been to a strip club, or any club, for that matter, but I’m a young’n. I’m only 20.
I don’t plan on going to a strip club, though…unless I’m stripping 🙂 I’m a bit of an exhibitionist lol (but seriously, I wouldn’t really strip)
Post # 8
I’ve been to both, and was a) bored with the ladies, not because I wasn’t interested in them but because they themselves were bored with what they were doing and b) enthralled with the guys- they were hilarious! They really got into it. I’ve also been to Thunder from Down Under, which is a pretty PG-13 rated show. It. Was. Awesome. It was just funny, not sexy. They pranced about, danced on our tables, one guy even sat on my lap and gave me a kiss. It was a totally innocent thing though- the girls were SCREAMING for them, and then just danced around. I’m pretty sure all of them are gay, but who cares- it was just fun entertainment.
Post # 9
Yup! Been to both and I think they’re a lot of fun. That’s my personal opinion though and I can see how some people might find it awkward/gross/trashy. To me, the adult industry is just another branch of entertainment so I see nothing wrong with clubs, I just stay away from the “darker side” of things, and trust me it’s there.
I much prefer the female clubs. I prefer the gentleman’s club in my city because it’s more upscale and women guests have to be accompanied by a male or they are turned away. It’s just a nicer, more upscale club that enforced “gowns.” ie: it’s less trashy.
Male strippers are a little kookie but whatever, I just laugh at it and have a good time. The female dancers though can really put on a show if they are good.
Post # 10
I’ve been to a strip club and saw female strippers. Was terribly bored an thought the girls were gross. Heavy, heavy makeup, orange tans, crunchy overdyed blonde hair, absolutely horrendous boob jobs that look like someone pasted water balloons to their chests. You know the type. I think the nude female form is gorgeous, but these strippers were awful. I don’t think I could ever enjoy a strip club, frankly, or any strip club I can imagine. Something very skeevy about being surrounded by a 99% male crowd of strangers getting boners at women sliding their privates along a dirty pole.
Post # 11
Went on my bachelorette, I was looking forward to pole acrobatics too, but only one even did anything other than put her hand on it. Lame!
Post # 12
- Wedding: October 2010 - Parents' backyard
I went once my freshmen year in college with some guys in our hall and my BFF at the time. We took shots beforehand and we were curious! It was a little funny though, because the moves those strippers were doing were not erotic.. I seriously feared for their lives.. I mean it was cool and all but I stood there worried pretty much the whole time. I didn’t understand why men would find that sexy.
Post # 13
We (the girls and friends not FH) use to go all the time because its the only place open after 1am!
I even made some $ on midget night! (not stripping just up there with them)
Post # 14
Yes, but only for bachelorette parties, mostly in Vegas. My friends live in Southern California and it’s practically tradition to rent a few suites in Venitian and go to OG’s! It’s all for fun and laughs and never taken seriously (BTW, I highly recommend Yohan if you’re there, he’s a non-sleezy nice guy and even told me stories about his grandmother!) HAHA!
I’ve been to a couple bachelor parties either at a house or in a local hotel (non-Vegas) and in that environment, it never was as fun. It felt a little freaky actually, and sometimes the guys are perverts and seem to take it too seriously leaving all the girls running around the room to get away from them. Maybe becuase in that setting it’s more intimate and feels more sleezy, or maybe it was just the particular strippers that made it seem that way … I dunno.
I’ve never seen female strippers though, except while passing the club onto the male stripper section. But clubs nowerdays have go-go dancers, usually on poles and come to think of it, when I was very young, I’ve seen a few drunken college students in Tijuana get on stage and start to take it off does that count?!
Post # 15
I agree with @RenoRose. I think they can be a lot of fun too if you’re there with the right people.