(Closed) Have you ever had a sex dream about someone who isn’t your DH/FI/SO?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Have you ever had a sex dream about someone who isn't your DH/FI/SO?
    Yes : (82 votes)
    93 %
    No : (4 votes)
    5 %
    Kind of... (please explain) : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    7777 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Yes. Most definitely. None of mine are ever exs, though. Mine are more like…. steamy sex on a yacht with Bradley Cooper or something. lol

    Most of the time, dreams are symbolic and not literal. I wouldn’t worry about it at all.

    Post # 4
    835 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I have wacko dreams (one of the million reasons I’m still awake…sometimes I’m afraid to sleep) so, yes…indeed I have. Even about people I don’t like…at all.  So don’t feel guilty… and LOL zippylef  ….man, I wish mine were like that!!!!! 

    Post # 6
    1098 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I don’t think I’ve ever had a sex dream ever, I feel like such a weirdo. I have dreams were I flirt, kiss or marry other guys all the time though. I usually tell Fiance about them because they are pretty funny.

    Post # 7
    835 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    ladyartichoke  Oh, too funny…I have done that, too!!! And it usually takes a minute to calm down?!??? Yeah, that stuff can really make you wake up on the wrong side of the bed, for sure! 

    Post # 8
    7777 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    @ladyartichoke:  I hear you on the disturbing dreams. I have really vivid and bizarre dreams sometimes and I wake up all upset like that. I’m sorry, hun. That’s never a good way to start the day.

    Post # 11
    94 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I went through a phase of having dreams where I slept with one of my exes. They were really upsetting and made me feel so guilty.

    But when I told someone about them they suggested that maybe it was just that I was comparing my relationship with my (then) Boyfriend or Best Friend to my ex, or that I was thinking about the similarities between the guy in the dream and my Boyfriend or Best Friend.

    When I thought hard about it I realised that the main thing about the ex in the dream was that he had been a total commitment phobe and when I had the dream I was worried that my Boyfriend or Best Friend was never going to propose. (He did in the end – Yay!)

    As soon as I realised this I stopped having the dreams, so this is my advice to you: think hard whether there is something about your ex that you are comparing to your current relationship.

    Post # 12
    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I voted no, I don’t dream at all though so it would be really weird if I did!

    Post # 13
    1765 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Yes I have! Just recently I had a dream about this guy from high school who I haven’t seen or talked to in um… forever! I literally have no idea how he ended up in a dream like that. I woke up and I was just like what?! I never even dated this guy, so it literally just came out of no where. I won’t be telling Fiance about it because I just think it’s weird, and obviously doesn’t mean anything. 

    Post # 14
    3624 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    All the time! Though they’re with Fiance too sometimes. But I’m good at remembering my dreams.

    Post # 15
    10714 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I have a dream about my ex Fiance from time to time. lol

    Post # 16
    16191 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    I honestly haven’t, but I have plenty of other crazy dreams from time to time!

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