Post # 1
So in the last week I have had two sex dreams about two separate exs. One of them was more about emotional cheating and the other was purely sex. But when I woke I feel really guilty and I have no idea why I’m dreaming about them. I haven’t told SO because I don’t think there’s any need at all. But just feel a bit meh about it.
So I just needed to let off some steam and share with someone.
Have you ever had a sex dream about someone who isn’t your DH/FI/SO?
Post # 3
Yes. Most definitely. None of mine are ever exs, though. Mine are more like…. steamy sex on a yacht with Bradley Cooper or something. lol
Most of the time, dreams are symbolic and not literal. I wouldn’t worry about it at all.
Post # 4
I have wacko dreams (one of the million reasons I’m still awake…sometimes I’m afraid to sleep) so, yes…indeed I have. Even about people I don’t like…at all. So don’t feel guilty… and LOL zippylef ….man, I wish mine were like that!!!!!
Post # 5
@zippylef I agree with @teamajax13, that does sound like fun! And I agree that these things are symbolic so I’m not worried persay, just made me wake up on the wrong side of bed this morning. I’m not used to having many dreams about people I know, so it’s a bit weird that I’ve had two so close together. One time I had a nightmare that SO had cheated: I woke up in tears, even though I knew it was only a dream; then had to wake SO up to give me a cuddle, haha.
Post # 6
I don’t think I’ve ever had a sex dream ever, I feel like such a weirdo. I have dreams were I flirt, kiss or marry other guys all the time though. I usually tell Fiance about them because they are pretty funny.
Post # 7
ladyartichoke Oh, too funny…I have done that, too!!! And it usually takes a minute to calm down?!??? Yeah, that stuff can really make you wake up on the wrong side of the bed, for sure!
Post # 8
@ladyartichoke: I hear you on the disturbing dreams. I have really vivid and bizarre dreams sometimes and I wake up all upset like that. I’m sorry, hun. That’s never a good way to start the day.
Post # 9
@novacaineandlaughter: definitely NOT a weirdo!
@teamajax13: and @zippylef: here’s to the day improving. You guys and WB always cheer me up 🙂
Post # 10
ladyartichoke Aweeeee, back at ya!!!
Post # 11
I went through a phase of having dreams where I slept with one of my exes. They were really upsetting and made me feel so guilty.
But when I told someone about them they suggested that maybe it was just that I was comparing my relationship with my (then) Boyfriend or Best Friend to my ex, or that I was thinking about the similarities between the guy in the dream and my Boyfriend or Best Friend.
When I thought hard about it I realised that the main thing about the ex in the dream was that he had been a total commitment phobe and when I had the dream I was worried that my Boyfriend or Best Friend was never going to propose. (He did in the end – Yay!)
As soon as I realised this I stopped having the dreams, so this is my advice to you: think hard whether there is something about your ex that you are comparing to your current relationship.
Post # 12
I voted no, I don’t dream at all though so it would be really weird if I did!
Post # 13
Yes I have! Just recently I had a dream about this guy from high school who I haven’t seen or talked to in um… forever! I literally have no idea how he ended up in a dream like that. I woke up and I was just like what?! I never even dated this guy, so it literally just came out of no where. I won’t be telling Fiance about it because I just think it’s weird, and obviously doesn’t mean anything.
Post # 14
All the time! Though they’re with Fiance too sometimes. But I’m good at remembering my dreams.
Post # 15
I have a dream about my ex Fiance from time to time. lol
Post # 16
I honestly haven’t, but I have plenty of other crazy dreams from time to time!