(Closed) Have you ever spent the night with a man soon after breaking up…..(contid)

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: (contid) from a very serious relationship and feeling like you did something wrong??
    yes : (24 votes)
    44 %
    no : (20 votes)
    36 %
    somewhat : (11 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    556 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    This is normal. Don’t beat yourself. Sometimes separating can be a process that takes time.

    Post # 5
    423 posts
    Helper bee

    @MrsWishyWashy:  +1. 

    Even though the relationship is over you still feel like your are mentally a part of it. I broke up around a month back (after 5 years) and still feel guilty even looking at another guy. I’m hoping it will improve with time.

    Post # 6
    462 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @SashaL00OVE:  Never done something exactly like this, but did start dating my current, wonderful SO only 3 months after my ex cheated on me. So, different, but after a while you have to do what you have to do.

    And I feel like this is totally acceptable and normal and healthy! As long as you don’t let yourself keep feeling guilty, because you did nothing wrong!

    Post # 9
    2638 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2006

    The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. 🙂

    Post # 12
    5958 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    Don’t sweat it honey, One For the Road and all that last chance crap gets to a person….you have to get him out of your system, it’s fine.

    Post # 13
    7902 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

    I did this, but I didn’t feel like I was doing anythign wrong.

    Post # 14
    3421 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

    @Cornmuffin09:  I met my SO 3 months after my first real relationship. But I managed to have 2 flings during that summer before We got together, before me even met, So I felt like my ex was out of my system when we got together. it took being with my current SO for about a year to REALLy get over my ex…and all the damage he caused.

    Post # 15
    462 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @Sapphire-Dreamer:  Actually… I think it was the same… I had at least one fling that lasted for two weeks, and then a one night stand. That was liberating actually. I don’t recommend it for everyone, because I had some regret about that one when I got with my SO, but it really made me feel like I didn’t need a man to love me to be happy (which sounds sort of silly…)

    But I really hope OP is doing well.

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