(Closed) Have you read Blink?

posted 9 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would and will anever do it!!!  I have to read that book – what else does it say, HAHAHAHAHAH

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

Blink was a great book!  I don’t really think it would matter either way for us if we knew or not, but I agree, it might be problematic (self-fulfilling prophecy) for others.  I thought that the characteristics that he shared were predictive enough… I can’t remember what they were, but I think one of them was that belittling your partner was very very bad.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Claxton Farm

Yes! Mr. Snow and I joke all the time about contempt! (That was the one characteristic that seemed to have causal relationship to relationship success…speaking to your partner with contempt)

I don’t know…I think we would go through it. I don’t think those kinds of assessments are relationship death sentences and might give us insight into areas we’re too involved to see. 

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