(Closed) Have you regretted a bridesmaid or MOH choice at all?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Did you have any regrets in your wedding party?

    I wish I chose a different MOH

    regretted 1 of my BMs

    regretted more than 1 BM

    no regrets

    regretted a Flower Girl

    regretted a Junior BM

    other, I will explain below

  • Post # 46
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    Newbee

    I know that this is an old post, but this is me right now which would explain why I’ve ran into this post on today. My fiance and I had agreed that we would have 5 on each side. I got down to my 5th person and felt pressured to hurry and choose becasue our wedding date is quickly approaching and now I wish I had made a better, more appropriate choice. The 5th person I had chosen and I are friends, but not GREAT friends. Now I wish I would have let my other friend be a part of my big day instead. She’s consistently checking in on me and willing to help. I definietly wish I had thought it through more with my final choice. The thing is, I hadn’t known either of them for a really long time, but sometimes its not about the length of time you’ve known a person, but the friendship itself.

    Post # 47
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    Wannabee

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    Ellegee :  yeah but it happens. Unfortunately my bestie/MOH and I have grown apart she admitted to be jealous of me and my lifestyle. I would have NEVER expected to hear that from her. I do appreciate her honesty but our friendship is not the same ever since. Now she’s getting married and she has chosen 4 bridesmaids none of which include me, hurts. But at the same time how can I expect her to ask me? We’ve grown apart. We’re different people now. 

    Post # 48
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    Busy bee

    I regretted one Bridesmaid or Best Man.  I still regret it, years later.  I wish I hadn’t been so nice and accomodating and gracious, it wasn’t worth it.  Enough said.

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