- 5 years ago
I know that this is an old post, but this is me right now which would explain why I’ve ran into this post on today. My fiance and I had agreed that we would have 5 on each side. I got down to my 5th person and felt pressured to hurry and choose becasue our wedding date is quickly approaching and now I wish I had made a better, more appropriate choice. The 5th person I had chosen and I are friends, but not GREAT friends. Now I wish I would have let my other friend be a part of my big day instead. She’s consistently checking in on me and willing to help. I definietly wish I had thought it through more with my final choice. The thing is, I hadn’t known either of them for a really long time, but sometimes its not about the length of time you’ve known a person, but the friendship itself.